Post Date December, 03 2023
Farewell to the era of parental orders and matchmaking, modern couples are united because of love. So women think it's natural for their husbands to love you. Actually not necessarily! Whether you love or not depends not only on your mouth, but also on your specific performance. Especially at critical moments. Some people are usually good to their wives, but at critical moments, they fall off the chain. How to test whether a man truly loves his wife depends on the following six critical moments.
1. Being able to share household chores when the wife is tired
The era of men leading the outside and women leading the inside has passed, and now there is a emphasis on gender equality. Women are also starting to go out to support their families, so similarly, men should share household chores. In modern society, household chores are no longer the exclusive preserve of women, but require two people to jointly undertake them. If women usually do household chores in a family, then when women are tired, will men feel sorry for their wives and take the initiative to share household chores? This is one of the criteria for testing whether a man loves his wife.
2. Make necessary sacrifices during pregnancy
When a wife is pregnant, it is the most important period for a man to take good care of her. In order to accompany his wife through this special period, a man who loves his wife must not mind making some sacrifices. Firstly, there are sacrifices in sexual life. Many men make mistakes during their wives' lonely and unbearable pregnancy, which is actually a manifestation of insufficient love. Secondly, it is to sacrifice personal time and prioritize everything with the wife. No matter how macho or lazy this man is, he should always put his wife at the center and sacrifice personal arrangements when his wife is pregnant. For example, chatting and walking with my wife, helping with massage to alleviate discomfort, and actively cooking. It is difficult to say that a man who cannot be centered around his wife when she is pregnant can be a person worth relying on for a lifetime.
3. Take good care of your wife when she is sick
Sick people are very fragile, especially those who need close care. However, it cannot be denied that there is a certain truth in the saying "there is no filial son before a long illness bed", and when it comes to couples, it is also difficult to see a loving couple before a long illness bed. Although this cannot be considered absolute, it is a partial reality. When the wife is sick, whether the husband can take good care of her, at least not to dislike her, is a crucial moment to test a man's feelings.
4. When arguing, be able to show weakness first
Couples live together every day, and arguments are inevitable. At this critical moment, in order not to hurt feelings, there is always someone who needs to give in first. If a man can restrain himself from actively showing weakness and giving in when it comes to arguments, then such a man must have a tolerant heart, which is also one of the minimum requirements that women hope a man can achieve.
5. Being able to charge ahead in times of danger
It is natural for men to protect women, and it is also incumbent on husbands to protect their wives. As a man, it is his responsibility to protect his wife and children. If a man only thinks of himself in times of crisis, then he is definitely a selfish and unreliable man. The couple were originally birds in the same forest, and they flew separately when a disaster came. Such words are really chilling.
6. Whenever you can hold onto loneliness
Whether it's a dull marriage, a couple arguing, or facing temptations, men must be able to resist. A long married life is inevitably dull and tasteless. When the wife is no longer beautiful, and when the marriage is plain and watery, can a man manage that moving heart and endure loneliness without being distracted? This is an important moment to test a man's loyalty. Loyalty to marriage is the most basic requirement for women to men. A man who is not loyal to marriage, no matter how excellent he is, cannot make women happy.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
