Post Date December, 03 2023
Going into marriage, for every woman, is unforgettable, mixed feelings and the most important. But after actual marriage, there are bitterness, sweetness, panic, regret, reluctance and entanglement in real life. The bitterness of the past, the sweetness of love, the trivial panic, the regret of loss, the reluctance of first love, and the tangle of love and hate. Fortunately, everything will be swallowed and smoothed by the flood of time.
All wounds will heal automatically. Those dying beliefs are hanging in the air, crying and howling. If even marriage needs to be defended to the death, then this marriage has long been in vain and should not be abandoned. Without the nourishment of love, marriage in name only exists. Being together will make you breathless. Of course, if you think it is necessary to defend marriage, then you should learn how women should manage marriage.
1. Once they get married, they will find many shortcomings and shortcomings of each other. So he began to nitpick, catch a little fault of the other party and make a big fuss, which is not good. This requires both spouses to understand mutual tolerance. Only with an inclusive heart can all kinds of conflicts in marriage be resolved in time.
Women should understand that there is no absolute fairness and justice in marriage and even in the whole emotional world. You should not expect that the other party will appreciate your efforts, and don't care whether the other party will give corresponding rewards. The most taboo in marriage is to blindly take. Too selfish feelings will eventually kill themselves.
2. If a woman finds out that her husband is cheating, she should never make trouble with him. At this time, the most important thing is to know how to keep a clear head and calm, and it is better to remain calm and calm, so as to respond to changes with changelessness. The specific strategy should be formulated according to the actual situation. The general principle is calm and objective, calm and don't panic. If a woman finds that her husband is cheating, she will jump up and down in a variety of ways, which will only accelerate the pace of her husband's cheating.
If there was nothing wrong, you would have done it. Of course, this is not to let you completely sit back and ignore. But you need to understand that attacking at the right time is like hitting a snake and hitting seven inches. You have to find out the crux of your marriage first, and then you can apply the right medicine to the case. You can completely protect your marriage from being attacked by a third party. If you are confused at this time and don't know how to deal with it, you can also find professionals to help you make suggestions, so as not to develop to an uncontrollable point.
3. Take retreat as the way forward, look for reasons, women should live their own style, and the most common fault women make after marriage is that they are easy to lose themselves. When the focus and center of women are completely on men, women will become detestable in the eyes of men. Men all desire freedom. If a man doesn't feel enough freedom in marriage, he will cheat if he has the chance.
At this time, women should know how to make progress by retreating and live their own style. Only when women make men feel confident, independent, beautiful and unrestrained can men take women seriously. Of course, this premise is that two people should love each other sincerely. Otherwise, everything is in vain. The couple should keep a little distance and have independent space for each other.
Many women are full of misunderstandings about marriage, thinking that a marriage contract can bind an emotion. Actually, it is not. Marriage also needs careful management. There are no ugly women in this world, only lazy women. Similarly, there are no bad marriages in the world, only those that do not know how to manage with heart. If you want to make a long and happy marriage, you must know how to keep a proper distance and give both parties enough independent space. Too close love will suffocate because of lack of oxygen.
4. Women should be gentle and kind, and never be selfish, heartless and ruthless. Such women will lose their kindness even if they are successful and beautiful. Then everything she has will be eclipsed, and men will forget and flinch. It is easy to find emotional sustenance outside.
A woman plays many roles in marriage, such as daughter, wife, daughter-in-law and mother. You need to be patient to play these roles well, otherwise things will be very bad, which will bring a lot of trouble to the family and cause unnecessary conflicts. So patience is important for a woman. A virtuous woman often touches his man.
5. People in the world are bound to encounter many people and things. Bumps and bumps are unavoidable. At this time, we need to be tolerant, especially in terms of feelings. We need to understand and accommodate each other. Of course, we should not be blindly tolerant, but also properly and calmly deal with it according to the situation.
First of all, don't play the big lady's temper, let alone divorce, regret marrying him, blind, and so on. When people are not calm, they will easily say nothing and hurt the other person's heart, which will drive your man's heart to other women.
6. If men spend most of their time on their careers, women should clean themselves and their homes. The word "clean" has two meanings: one is that the family environment and themselves are clean and tidy, and can't be messy and untidy. Another meaning is that the spiritual life is clean, relatively speaking, a hobby with taste, and likes beautiful and noble things.
Today is an era of rich and colorful knowledge, which directly affects people's lives. Knowledge does not necessarily come from textbooks, but from the accumulation of life. A woman with rich knowledge will have a sense of discretion and discretion in everything, making men feel that you can deal with family problems, fully reflect your wisdom, and make your family harmonious and happy. Of course, this needs to continue to learn and enrich themselves.
As a woman, you can't blindly pursue unrealistic things. The mountain looks at the height of the mountain, and don't make contradictions. You should act according to your ability, tailor your clothes, and be satisfied. Although you can't face the mask, the direction of learning from this aspect can't be changed, so that you can make yourself better and let the other party's heart often hang you.
7. Women should be gentle as water, learn to show weakness properly, water can dissolve everything; It is to know how to tolerate and understand him. Women who know how to show weakness properly will make men feel pity for women. It will make the other party feel confident and strong. If a woman is too strong, the man will feel that he has no place in marriage. Over time, the man may betray the marriage.
Therefore, women can properly trouble men. All men are face-loving. You should make your men feel special. Learn to let him hurt you. Of course, you should also understand him and care about him with a tolerant heart. I have repeatedly stressed that in marriage, women must know how to show weakness properly. Showing weakness is not weakness.
Women should be gentle like water, often take care of themselves, have a heart of tolerance and understanding, and more importantly, the kind of kindness and wisdom that women show from the bottom of their hearts; But you also need to keep learning and managing, so that your marriage can be maintained more firmly.
