The Legend of Mi Yue has made Little Chu Tian famous, and many parents who have daughters and want to give birth to them want to raise their daughters to be as agile, intelligent, and angelic as she is. If you have a daughter, please make sure to give her these gifts so that she can live a happy and happy life.
First gift
Emotions
Create opportunities for emotional communication with your daughter, play together, tell bedtime stories, etc. When your daughter is still young, you can throw her up and catch her again. Embrace and provide emotional needs to children through physical contact.
Second gift
Physiological knowledge
Girls are born with a great concern for their appearance and body. Parents should help girls understand their bodies, give their children confidence, make them love their bodies, and protect their bodies. Especially during adolescence, parents need to provide their daughter with sexual knowledge that she really wants to know and needs, and she will rely on her mother's guidance to establish a good parent-child relationship.
Third gift
Sense of security
Girls are like sand eagles, although beautiful, yet delicate and fragile. So parents need to help her establish a stable sense of security. To maintain family harmony, spend more time with children, and ensure that the proportion of children participating in important activities reaches at least two-thirds, even if it affects income. I often chat, relax, and participate in competitions with my daughter. A girl who grew up with her father feels more secure.
Fourth gift
Strong and independent
Parents should encourage their daughters to think independently. When doing household chores or handicrafts, please ask for their daughters to also help. Girls who have been trained by their fathers and have independent thinking during their growth often do better at work and grow into confident women. Daughters are followers of their fathers, and they cultivate their leadership skills by observing their fathers.
The fifth gift
Adventure and laughter
A life without laughter is a waste, and a life without adventure is incomplete. It is generally the father's responsibility to provide adventure opportunities. Girls love to laugh, and sometimes telling jokes is their father's job. Fathers should encourage their daughters to participate in competition, so that girls can achieve success and happiness.
The sixth gift
Appreciate others
Many people believe that girls have a strong sense of jealousy and prefer to develop jealousy when compared to people with strong abilities. And jealousy is often a huge obstacle that blinds one's eyes and hinders one's progress. A mother must help her child learn to appreciate others and recognize their excellence through hard work, so that she will find ways to improve herself instead of being jealous of others.
Seventh Gift
Not coquettish
Generally, when girls are two to three years old, they will begin to show willfulness, which is a self-awareness awakening. Moreover, in daily life, parents' attitudes towards their daughter are too tough, and she will be reckless and unreasonable; If she is too accommodating, she will act recklessly. The only correct way is to give girls scientific and rational love, not to spoil, not to compromise, to reason and adhere to principles in everything, and not to let girls' capricious and spoiled behavior become a norm.
Eighth Gift
Financial management
A girl is not only the daughter of her parents, but also the wife of her husband, the mother of her children, and the defender of a family. How to understand money and allocate family assets reasonably is very important for a girl. Teach your daughter how to understand money from a young age, take her to buy groceries, settle accounts with her, and when she gets older, you can also let her manage the financial power of the family, which is very beneficial for her.
We can't spend our whole life with our daughter, but we can teach her the things that will benefit her throughout her life.