Women's premarital sex has extreme psychological motivation, and should get out of this love misunderstanding as soon as possible

Premarital sex is a broad concept. According to the classification criteria of sexual desire satisfaction, sexual science research divides human sexual behavior into three types: one is core sexual behavior, which is bisexual sexual behavior; the second is marginal sexual behavior such as kissing, hugging, caressing, and the third is type sexual behavior. The premarital sex referred to in this article belongs to the first category, which refers to the sexual behavior of both men and women during love. Its characteristic is that both parties voluntarily engage, there is no mandatory legal guarantee of violence, there are no obligations and responsibilities between spouses, and it is prone to disputes and serious consequences. In our country, premarital sex is opposed by public opinion and morality, which is not allowed.

A large number of data show that most of the initiators of premarital sex are men, but the direct victims are women. This behavior is voluntarily carried out by both men and women, each with a certain psychological motivation. In order to safeguard women's interests, promote the harmony of marriage and the civilized development of society, this article only analyzes the psychological motivation of women's premarital sex and the serious consequences of premarital sex for women, and guides women to love rationally in the process of love, so as to get rid of this love misunderstanding as soon as possible. According to the analysis of a large number of survey data in recent years, women have many extreme ideas and ideas about the psychological motivation of premarital sex. The author summarizes the following misconceptions from the perspectives of sexual psychology and sociology.

1. The pursuit of so-called new ways of love has entered a period of high-level, fast-paced, and colorful Chinese society in the 1990s. Lifestyles have changed, and the way of love has also changed. Some young people mistakenly believe that the changes in love in the 1990s were usually sexual relationships. Some young women say that ordinary love is incomplete. True love should reflect vastness. Since I love him, I can give him anything. Love should give freedom to the loved one, without waiting for marriage. It's already the 1990s, and emotions are boring. I'm waiting ahead of history. Under the psychological control of pursuing new trends, they quickly transitioned from first love to passionate love, rising from marginal behavior to core behavior. The intense impulses of hugs, kisses, and caresses that excite sexual and physiological instincts are irresistible to reason.

A survey shows that 44.67% of women have had sexual intercourse multiple times within six months, of which 50.33% are willing and 80.33% believe it is a personal matter. According to China's sexual ethics, the most intimate form of sexual activity during a man or woman's romantic relationship is kissing, snuggling, and caressing, which can only occur when the marital relationship is protected by law. Unconscious trendy behavior is a manifestation of a lack of sense of responsibility.

2. In recent years, with the influx of Western cultural trends and the proliferation of Chinese culture, the advocacy of various freedom concepts has impacted the profound cultural accumulation of traditional morality. Some young people blindly advocate various Western freedom concepts and have a strong self-awareness to break through traditional moral concepts. A young woman said, 'We are facing the impact of the Eightfold Wave, and rational women are also very confused... The moral music box is no longer able to appease the conflicting and painful souls and bodies of young people, and their sexual concepts and instincts are equal.'.

Therefore, some young women believe that even when they are mature, satisfying their desires is still a physiological need. Just the happiness you love is enough. "There are also" What are you afraid of during pregnancy, and sexual innocence Not having an abortion is not a complete woman. In the survey, 32.67% of women believe that chastity is not important, and 19.7% of women have no relationship after sexual intercourse, saying that's all. Concepts change, behavior changes, and their love affairs are destroyed by the fire of desire when they don't know how to control their life's fate rationally. They also have sexual behavior that shouldn't have happened earlier, and there are also people who have periodic relationships with their boyfriends and have premonitions Two people cannot get married, but that special relationship is still the same. The distorted sexual concept makes the distorted sexual behavior uncontrollable, resulting in irresponsible consequences.