Post Date December, 03 2023
Many women seem to take a reassuring pill after marriage, thinking that getting married is going into the safe. However, the safe box is not necessarily safe. It is often due to the lack of smooth communication between husband and wife, the neglect of due care for each other, the lack of attention to the consolidation and cultivation of both parties' feelings, and the lack of continuous injection of fresh blood into the marriage. The marriage often lights up a red light, and even encounters the intrusion of "junior three".
When extramarital affairs occur, it is understandable that women feel the whirlwind and heartbreak, but all kinds of irrational behaviors may not achieve the desired results. Some women can't accept the cruel reality and resolutely give up marriage to become beautiful. This is not the best strategy to deal with extramarital affairs in marriage. Because children will be the biggest victims of divorced families.
Don't give up easily in the face of extramarital love
Don't give up easily. It's not to encourage you to be a "nail woman". It's the magic weapon of "nail house" against "demolition office": cry, make trouble and hang yourself, rather than let the other party succeed. If both husband and wife suffer from each other day and night, torture each other day and night, and dance the dance of death in the quarrel of hatred, hatred, resentment and anger, then it may be the best policy for both parties to pause rationally and break up amicably.
If you don't want to give up, the injured party should avoid crying and blaming the spouse. You can't go out to find an affair for your own inner balance in order to revenge the other party. If you really want to save your marriage, you should learn tolerance, forgiveness and retreat. Don't be unreasonable, put yourself at the highest point of morality, judge the other party at all times, and let the other party feel guilty at all times. We should not use material interests to bribe children in their quarrels. We hope that children will stand on their side, or expose the shortcomings of their spouses to children, accuse each other of all kinds of faults, and make children feel at a loss, thus becoming victims of the family.
The most effective way to deal with extramarital affairs is to be calm. Calm down and let yourself think about how it happened? Learning to accept the current reality is the first step of self growth and change. With the opportunity of breaking marriage, we can deeply reflect on the problems in the process of getting along with each other, solve the problems of marriage through their own growth, and save the marriage. Smart couples often do not blame others too much, but reflect on their own problems, because the behavior of the other party is just a feedback of our behavior, giving them more space to work hard and let them get more growth.
