Post Date December, 03 2023
For women, there is a natural advantage that she possesses a very sensitive sixth sense, also known as intuition. When falling in love, opposite sex friends may show unusual enthusiasm or make small gestures that are more intimate. Even with a small glance, a woman's heart may experience a feeling that surges like an electric current, rapidly impacting her heart.
Similarly, in marriage, women have long been aware of whether their partner has engaged in infidelity. When you spend less and less time together, he always refuses to go to movies or shopping with you on weekends due to work reasons. He also rarely asks about things at home or in your work, or is unwilling to have intimate behavior with you. When he teases you for a small matter, women always ask themselves: I already feel that he has an affair, so should I continue to play dumb and live with it?
Some people say that women should learn to be obedient and be patient. Even for couples who have been married for decades, their husband has been having an affair and they still live like this. Some people also say that women should be decisive and decisive. They should not let themselves feel oppressed. They can only feel happy once, and when they discover a man has an affair, they will dump him and find a better and loyal man to live with. In fact, women understand in their hearts that there is no invincible strength. As long as they have the heart to observe, men's little tricks can be easily understood with just a look or a try. But in the face of an affair, it is not easy to make a decision, as it involves many aspects and cannot be simply discussed. Women sometimes prefer to foolishly deceive themselves rather than break the current relatively stable situation.
Women should not pretend to be foolish and not know that men have an affair. There are two factors worth considering:
Firstly, the man's attitude towards you.
People have a curious love for novelty mentality. Who can guarantee that men and women will not engage in extramarital affairs after marriage, and who can pat their chest and say that their marriage will definitely go through to the end. The things in this world are inherently full of uncertainty, and we are not prophets. We can preset our own future and grasp the situation of things to happen. Everyone makes mistakes, and if a man has had an occasional affair or two, a woman can try to forgive him and give him a chance to reform. But there is a basic premise, that is, he still loves his family and his wife and children, strives to take on family responsibilities, and does not forget to show you warmth and kindness. He is proving to you that his infidelity is an accidental act, not a deliberate act, but an impulsive act of seeking fresh excitement. On the contrary, if a man has turned his back on being the main guest and no longer takes your mistress identity to heart, spends three or two days hanging out with a woman for fun, turns a deaf ear to you and things at home, yells at you for no reason, and punches and kicks at you, at this time, if a woman repeatedly pretends to be foolish and endures, even if she makes do with it, she will definitely be heartbroken, restless, and restless.
Secondly, women's understanding of themselves.
Personality largely determines a person's way of doing things. If you are a gentle, broad-minded, positive and optimistic woman, and face the situation of a man having an affair, you will generally be patient and observe for a period of time. If you are a straightforward and strong tempered woman, the probability of ignition is higher, and you cannot tolerate any hypocrisy or deceit or betrayal. Generally, you will tear open a man's face in the first place, leaving him with no face left.
It is important to treat oneself truthfully. When facing a man's affair, it is not just foolishness that can solve the problem, nor can it deliberately avoid the facts that have already happened. It is best to comprehensively analyze the actual situation, carefully consider the pros and cons, and then make appropriate and appropriate decisions.
