Post Date December, 02 2023
The greatest achievement of a woman's life is not only to have a stable family, but also to find a considerate husband. Pain to the bone. To achieve this state, women need to make efforts. A happy marriage, a husband who loves you, was won by a woman herself.
Release your bad temper
If a woman has a good temper, it is the luck of a family, but if she has no temper all the time, it becomes insipid. It is understandable if a man does not return overnight without losing his temper. If he hasn't returned late at night for days, you haven't lost your temper. That's excessive tolerance.
This is no longer tolerance, but cowardice. Such a persistent tolerance will only make him look down upon you and worsen. If you lose your temper and shout at him at this moment, do you still want this family? One is to warn a man who doesn't love his family, and the other is to let him know that you're still with him. Of course, female compatriots should also have a tolerance for losing their temper and nagging, so don't make trouble without reason.
Don't take it too wide
There are many women who control men too much, and those who control men strictly even have to control how much money they spend, smoke, drink, and meet friends. Even if men and women love each other, they should also give each other appropriate space. After all, love is in a broad sense. In addition to love, there are also friendships and family ties. Trust your husband and don't think that all women in the world are fox spirits except yourself.
Female friends must understand that men should manage, but they must be moderate. It is true that men sometimes unconsciously, play recklessly, drink too much, smoke in bed, and so on. "If you lose your temper and he loves you, men will understand you, too.". Controlling a man is like flying a kite, letting him fly high, but holding the string tightly in your hand!
Be sure to love your family
When two people fall in love and form a family, they not only need to love each other's person, but also love each other's family, respect, tolerate, and trust each other's family. Don't get angry when your husband and your mother-in-law go home for a hug. After all, that's the mother who raised him for decades. You can just laugh it off.
"If your mother-in-law is not confident about your newly married child and is afraid of her son's loss, you should sincerely impress her. You should know that it is normal for mother-in-law to have a strange temper sometimes. After all, most mother-in-law are going through menopause.". Understand and tolerate your mother-in-law more. With your sincerity, one day, your mother-in-law will love you like a daughter.
In short, a woman plays a significant role in the family, and it is important to understand how to manage a marriage and keep her husband's desire to run away. Of course, men cannot do nothing at all. Only by working together can they grow old and grow old.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
