Post Date December, 02 2023
Many female friends come to consult because they don't know what the man they are in love with is thinking, or they don't understand why they have such thoughts. The editor wants to tell everyone that some men have unhealthy romantic psychology, and sometimes their judgments about their boyfriends are not accurate. Therefore, it is important to understand the psychology of several male relationships.
1、 Absolute self psychology.
This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition. He asked his girlfriend to constantly showcase her "advantages" and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or there is a possibility of not meeting them, he will become angry and even feel that you have failed him.
2、 Logical error association.
This type of man is usually characterized by association and suspicion. He generally values love highly, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of his lover. Once a girlfriend does something he cannot understand or is unhappy with, he will "brainstorm" and mechanically find evidence that you are not aligned with him.
3、 Non emotional transfer into psychology.
This type of man lacks empathy when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, and does not empathize and empathize with her. Especially when a girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be treated emotionally, they withdraw or ignore her. He can only share joy with you and cannot share difficulties with you.
4、 Error contrasts with psychology.
This type of man often compares his strengths with those of his girlfriend, or compares his girlfriend's weaknesses with those of others. This type of man can quickly discover your strengths and appreciate them when they start dating you, and your relationship will also skyrocket. But if he discovers that your strengths are so inconspicuous, he will become indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you elusive and even becomes a temptation, making you feel even more mysterious.
5、 Adapt to excitement.
This type of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense of sensitivity, but lacks autonomy and confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he particularly likes trendy women. Pay attention to the appearance and image of your girlfriend, such as her appearance, hairstyle, and clothing, and be willing to invest in this area for her. However, once you cannot adapt to his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain incessantly.
When you discover that your boyfriend has any of the aforementioned psychological states, don't take it lightly. Of course, strictly speaking, any male will always have one or more of the above worries to some extent. There is no need to panic, let alone "break off" as soon as you discover it, so you will never find the right partner. The standard for mastering this' degree 'is that if you do love him, you can openly discuss your concerns with him and make him realize the danger of this hidden danger.
If you are new friends and your relationship is not yet deep, you can also talk to him to see what happens later. If you don't think it's necessary, cut off the friendship. However, take any approach. One thing to grasp is whether your judgment of him is correct and comprehensive, otherwise, taking things for granted and being self righteous will bring you lifelong pain.
Reminder: Some men may have unhealthy romantic psychology, and sometimes they may even feel "eternal hatred" due to inaccurate judgments about their boyfriends.
