Post Date December, 02 2023
The happiest thing for a woman is to marry a good man, but what type of man is considered a good man? Are these three types of good men?
A. A "good boy" who lacks assertiveness
If you hear about a boy's record of not smoking, not drinking, rarely going out at night, and never staying out at night, you will definitely "wow" and say, "How nice this boy is." But I'm afraid of such a "good boy" like him. Mei Yin, a dance teacher at an art kindergarten, said so. Her ex boyfriend, Zhe, is obsessed with her and has a good family background. Her father is a colon holding real power in a provincial authority, and her mother is a professor at a famous university. Since childhood, Zhe has been listening to his parents' words. He has excellent academic performance and walked smoothly according to the path designed by the old couple. After finishing graduate school, his father found a good position for him. In Zhe's opinion, even if my parents don't say a word, they won't make any mistakes, so they naturally listen to them.
"Good men" like Zhe have no opinions, lack their own standards of judging things, and dare not say "no" to others. Although they are very obedient and obedient, they can bring you a comfortable and stable life, they also need to transform you into a good girl, causing you to suffer the pain of breaking your wings.
B. "Ninja Turtle" with no temper
"You little girl, you are so headstrong, who can spoil you? Hailin is such a good-tempered child who is so obedient to you, but you actually laugh at him as a 'ninja turtle'." Often listening to my mother's nagging, Xiaohe cries bitterly in his heart. She had been dating Hailin for three years and had a deep appreciation of his "water loving" personality. She had never seen him lose his temper with himself, nor had she seen him berate him for his deep dissatisfaction with anything. Hailin takes care of her in every way, even meticulously.
"There are not many good-natured men like Hai Lin anymore, and the market is being favored by some" small family jasper "type girls. However, if you are a modern woman who wants to make efforts to sprint, this type of man may not be suitable for you, or he may have changed you, or in the future, due to different efforts made by you, there will be wide disparities in various aspects, resulting in a glass of bitter wine.", Either situation will affect the development of your career.
C. "Good Husband" Who Takes Over the World
He Fei's marriage has attracted the envy of many girls. She accidentally found a "wealthy man" to be her husband. Because Fei is so outstanding, she has captivated many suitors in terms of education, appearance, and temperament. When her husband, who was engaged in trade, proposed to her, he vowed to make Feishu live comfortably for a lifetime and asked her to resign and stay at home. So she became a full-time "virtuous wife helper" from now on. Without baby, she lived a very happy life. However, over time, Fei felt that staying idle for a long time was not a good way because he was still young and wanted to do something.
Those good husbands who take care of everything always want their wives to stay at home, take care of the housework and take care of baby. "You have become a bird in a golden wire cage, and after a long time, if you want to fly, you cannot fly high. You have to entrust your life to someone else.". As a modern woman who strives for self-reliance and self improvement, she certainly does not want to be reduced to a human fed canary.
I wonder if you have met such a man in your life? If so, be vigilant, because such men are good men, but these characteristics of their marriage life can become obstacles to your happiness. I hope that female friends should maintain mental health and recognize these facts.
