Will a woman become a tiger after giving birth? How to coordinate the emotional needs of men and women

There is a particularly powerful saying circulating among Chinese people: a 40 year old woman is like a tiger like a wolf. Nowadays, many women who have given birth suddenly change their appearance, which surprises their husbands! From conservatives to liberals, their demand seems to have increased overnight! Why is this happening?

1. The older a woman is, the more mature her physiology is

The physiological needs of general women are indeed stronger between the ages of 30 and 40. This is because female sex hormones reach their highest levels around the age of 35, which is also the peak demand.

Men are different, with the highest levels of sexual hormones around the age of 20 and the strongest physiological needs at this time. So some people abroad once said that in order to achieve harmony and happiness, it should be "male 20 years old, female 30 years old" to get married, so that the physiological needs of the two people are more matched in life. Of course, it is difficult to achieve this in real life, as marriage is determined by various factors.

The folk saying 'thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger' is not unreasonable. Because some women tend to relax to a certain extent after giving birth, they often cannot find satisfaction during sex. Postpartum relaxation in women can enhance the elasticity of the muscles around the pubic and coccygeal muscles by exercising them, which helps to find sensation before delivery.

2. Women who have given birth dare to accept it

Although 'sex' is the source of creating life. However, due to the influence of cultural, social and other concepts, Chinese people used to be shy about discussing sex. Especially for a country with thousands of years of feudal culture, sex is not suitable for public discussion.

Despite the fact that sex education has already started in kindergarten, there are still some voices who disagree. In such an environment, some women's sexual psychology before the age of 30 is more conservative, restrained, and reserved, and they dare not boldly express their sexual needs to show their nobility and dignity.

After the age of 30, especially women with a history of childbirth, all these psychological problems gradually disappear. They are in a passive state opposite to their previous sexual life and begin to boldly and clearly express their sexual needs. Making some men feel "lost" is actually a normal physiological phenomenon.

3. The relationship between men and women needs to be coordinated with each other

Perhaps like many people, you believe that men's physiological needs gradually decrease from the age of 20; After experiencing the stage of being like a wolf at the age of 30 and like a tiger at the age of 40, the physiological needs of women after the age of 50 will suddenly come to an end, just like fertility.