Post Date December, 03 2023
What is marital emotion, in fact, is the answer that many couples want. Some people have been in love for a long time, and their relationship is very good, but they just delay getting married. This lifestyle is very popular among men, and they can enjoy the life of having a wife without having to marry one. This kind of life is very good. However, for women, there is no guarantee without marriage, and men can cheat at any time.
1. Fear of marriage
A man who has been in love for a long time is not willing to marry you because he doesn't love you enough. It may be because he has a fear of marriage and doesn't have the mental preparation to enter it.
In modern society, the divorce demography has soared, and people no longer trust marriage. I used to think that marriage could last and keep the other person by my side, but now various temptations are everywhere, and both men and women can't resist the temptation to cheat. Sometimes men start to fear marriage when they see their friends getting married and leaving.
2. Not prepared mentally
Don't think that men will get excited when you suddenly say they're getting married. Your sudden words are like a sudden attack on a man.
Love and marriage are different. If a man wants to get married, you need to give him enough mental preparation and not try to surprise him. Otherwise, men can easily be scared away by you.
Before you are ready to propose marriage to him, it is advisable to give him more time to prepare his thoughts, such as frequently mentioning someone else's happiness after marriage by his side, giving him a hint, and also exploring whether he is prepared for marriage.
3. Fear of commitment
Don't think that men are brave enough, in fact, men are also cowardly. Many men are afraid of promises and are afraid of taking responsibility for their promises.
The cells that do not want to be responsible are basically the same as male hormones, rooted in male genes, with the difference being that some men have more and some men have less.
Marriage means commitment, it means being kind to this person, treating her well, and spending a lifetime with her. This promise is too long-term, like a shackle that binds him, and men don't want to spend their entire lives so quickly.
4. Afraid of changing one's lifestyle
People are not very willing to change their accustomed lifestyle. If you don't understand, take a look at the colleagues around you who complain about their work every day but still haven't switched jobs.
Because I have been used to it for many years, it takes some time to readjust to a sudden change, and many people do not want to casually change their lifestyle like this.
Getting married means that these two people want to live together, and it is more likely that they are living together as a family. Issues such as mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and personal life have come one after another. You need to adapt to the other person's bad habits. In love, everything seems to be good for the other person, but after marriage, it's not necessarily the same. If a man has already decided to change his lifestyle, then he is ready to get married.
Please don't evade this topic. Nowadays, many men hold a playful attitude towards relationships and have no intention of getting married. If you find that your man is such a mixed world demon king, I advise you to break up early and find your own happiness. Although such a decision is painful, it is more reliable than wasting one's youth.
