Post Date November, 16 2024
In marital sex, being brave and skilled in battle is the dream of every man and the requirement of every woman for her own man. But in this atmosphere of personalized life, the persistence of men has become the biggest problem. Let's follow the editor to learn more.
Premature ejaculation is the most common ejaculation dysfunction. The main manifestation is that ejaculation occurs at the beginning of sexual intercourse, or even before sexual intercourse, and normal sexual life cannot be carried out. The incidence rate accounts for more than 1/3 of adult men.
The definition of premature ejaculation is still controversial and is usually evaluated based on the latent period of male ejaculation or the frequency of female orgasm during sexual intercourse. For example, if a male loses the ability to control ejaculation during sexual intercourse, ejaculation is considered before or just after the penis is inserted into the vagina; Premature ejaculation may be defined as less than 50% of women achieving orgasm during sexual intercourse, but these are not widely accepted.
Because the incubation period of male ejaculation is influenced by factors such as age, duration of abstinence, physical condition, and emotional psychology, the frequency of female orgasm is also influenced by factors such as physical state, emotional changes, and surrounding environment. In addition, there are individual differences in the duration of ejaculation latency. It is generally believed that healthy men ejaculate 2-6 minutes after the penis is inserted into the vagina, which is considered normal.
How to treat premature ejaculation
Psychotherapy
It is important for both spouses to collaborate, especially for wives to participate in treatment. Psychological treatment for premature ejaculation requires the cooperation of the patient's wife. Due to misunderstandings or complaints from the female partner, it can increase the male partner's tension and anxiety, exacerbating their psychological burden. The woman should maintain a considerate and caring attitude, provide verbal and behavioral comfort, alleviate the man's nervousness, and help him establish healing confidence.
Premature ejaculation is a common problem, and both spouses need to understand the necessity and possibility of rebuilding ejaculation conditioning, eliminate patients' anxiety, unease, self guilt and other abnormal psychological states, and establish confidence in curing the disease. As long as both parties cooperate in treatment, it can still be cured.
Guidance on behavioral methods
The purpose of sexy focused training therapy is to teach patients to experience and enjoy sexual pleasure through tactile stimulation methods such as hugging, touching, and massage, and to overcome psychological barriers. You can also pull down the scrotum and testicles before reaching orgasm, or use your thumb and index finger to compress the glans to reduce sexual excitement and reduce erection hardness by 10% to 25%.
The method of squeezing and pinching the head of the penis involves placing the abdomen of the thumb at the frenulum of the penis, and the index and middle finger at the top and bottom of the coronal sulcus on the other side of the penis. The pressure is applied from front to back, and the male can tolerate it for about 3-4 seconds each time. This method can alleviate the urgency of ejaculation, and persistent treatment for 3-6 months can achieve long-lasting and stable therapeutic effects.
Oral medication treatment
At present, drug therapy mainly involves serotonin reuptake inhibitors such as sertraline and paroxetine; Tricyclic antidepressants such as clomipramine and fluoxetine. But these drugs all have certain side effects and must be taken under the guidance of a doctor.
Local medication treatment
Mainly a local anesthetic, it can be applied to the glans penis before sexual intercourse to delay the ejaculation latency through local anesthesia. External drugs such as 1% dyclonine solution, 1% tetracaine solution, 2% lidocaine gel, 3% ethyl aminobenzoate, etc.
After using local anesthetics, it is acceptable to use condoms or not. If not using a condom, wash the remaining medication off the penis. It should be noted that excessively prolonging the anesthesia time (30-45 minutes) can lead to the disappearance of an erection, as prolonged anesthesia can cause a significant portion of the penis to feel numb.
If residual drugs on the penis are not thoroughly cleaned before sexual intercourse (without the use of condoms), the diffusion of local anesthesia residues on the penis can also cause numbness in the female vaginal wall and reduce sexual pleasure. If the patient or sexual partner is allergic to local anesthetics, this treatment method is contraindicated.
