Post Date December, 03 2023
"As men and women interact for a long time, their feelings are stable, and the timing is ripe, it is natural for them to discuss marriage. Before discussing marriage, it is inevitable to have their parents meet first and check it out.". But why does a boyfriend refuse to meet her parents? What are the reasons?
The question of a boyfriend's reluctance to meet his parents is usually our subconscious first thought: "If a boyfriend doesn't love himself, he doesn't even want to get married.". A man who truly likes this woman can't wait to take her to see his parents, because taking her to see his parents is the best commitment to her. Similarly, he will also go to see her parents as soon as possible, so that they can rest assured that their daughter is taken care of. "Instead of doing this, my boyfriend avoided meeting her parents, so I can wonder if he was really just playing and not really interested in himself.". On this issue, there is also a possibility that the boyfriend is not mature enough to realize the importance of meeting the woman's parents and feel that there is no need to meet them, which on the other hand shows that he does not attach importance to this relationship. Of course, the above is just speculation, and one cannot be so one-sided about one's feelings, as it is very likely that his boyfriend has his unspoken secrets. In addition to the negative reasons why boyfriends don't want to meet their parents, the following reasons cannot be ruled out. All of these require your communication and communication. You should know that sometimes a person's fantasies can cause trouble for themselves.
1. "His career is not successful enough, and he doesn't think it's a good time to meet his parents.". "Men all want face. If their career is not going very smoothly now and they have nothing at all, it will definitely be awkward to think about meeting their female parents when asked about material matters. On this issue, men are often not very embarrassed to speak up, and they are more eager for their own women to realize that even if the relationship between them is no matter how good, it is difficult to maintain a long-term relationship without a financial foundation.". Men also hope that their women can understand themselves very well, and there are some things that need not be said.
2. I'm afraid that I won't be liked by the woman's parents. A girl may wish to recall in her mind whether she mentioned to her boyfriend during her relationship what kind of guy her parents like and what expectations she has for her future son-in-law. Perhaps her boyfriend was joking or something when you were chatting, but he must be silently comparing in his heart. Therefore, it is possible that her boyfriend does not want to meet her parents at this time because she is afraid that she is not the type they like. In addition, it is also possible that his family situation is not as good as yours and he has an inferiority complex, or that he has a relatively good family situation and does not want to meet your parents hastily for fear that you will not be accepted.
There are many possibilities for a boyfriend not to want to meet her parents because everyone has different personalities and ideas, but one thing is certain: he is not ready to marry you at any time and go down with you hand in hand. He also has many scruples, and these scruples may be acceptable or very nasty, so anyway, I think girls should not easily suspect why boys don't want to see their parents, but rather communicate with them. Perhaps you are waiting for your boyfriend to personally tell you the reason, while he is also waiting for you to ask him, won't this contradiction be solved?
