Post Date December, 03 2023
It must be admitted that men are very interested in the past of women, especially the past of their favorite girls. The spirit of men breaking the sand pot and asking the bottom is truly admirable. On the contrary, women do not question men's past thoroughly. However, men try their best to extract a woman's "confession". Why do men care about women's past psychology. Experts in male psychology believe that there should be several reasons for this.
Firstly, this precisely proves that men's jealousy is no less than that of women. Those who believe that jealousy is a "patent" for women may overestimate men. In fact, men's jealousy is also very attractive!
Secondly, men's tendency to ask women for "confessions" is not only driven by jealousy, but also by a strong desire for monopolization. He is still dissatisfied with the current state of possessing 'her' and believes in his heart that he should also monopolize the past. Once this possessiveness is high, even if a woman is close to family friends, she will feel helpless and even want to possess her every minute and second. In situations where psychology is too severe, it will become like Darenteo's novel 'Victory of Death', where both parties will be martyred and permanently possess each other.
Thirdly, there is a wonderful idea in the heart of a man, which is - always wanting to try whether he has the right to ask her. Women are different about this. Once a woman has a boyfriend, she starts to value his present and future, but doesn't really care about his past. Because he is a man! He inevitably has various experiences. If you care about everything, can you still stay with him? "Women have a greater tolerance towards men. Because the social habit of not paying much attention to men's "games" has been unconsciously accepted by her.
Through the above introduction, I believe many friends have some understanding of why men care about women's past. For men and women in love, they should correctly handle the issues left over from the past, and then eliminate their concerns and focus more on the future.
