Why do couples experience frigidity when they reach middle age? The secret of being hollowed out is here

The 'seven year itch' is often used as a synonym for the crisis in middle-aged couples' relationships. Is it a lack of affection or a lack of sexual intimacy? A survey shows that middle-aged couples lack daily emotional communication, have poor sexual quality, and generally have low intimacy index. The three main factors that affect the intimacy index of couples are: often inconsistent or severely divergent views on the same thing, lack of family responsibility, and disharmony in sexual life. In particular, some men feel embarrassed to talk and always avoid problems after sexual apathy, but they are very worried, which further aggravates their condition and may even cause real Sexual dysfunction or depression.

Sexual desire is an instinct. It generally does not completely disappear, but is easily disturbed by psychological and emotional factors. Due to the lack of specific standards for the strength of sexual desire, even the same person may vary depending on factors such as age, health status, mental state, living environment, relationships with partners, and sexual experience, it is not advisable to prematurely consider oneself as sexually indifferent. Only in the case of long-term sexual stimulation, if it still cannot trigger sexual desire, should the possibility of sexual apathy or loss of sexual desire be considered.

Most issues of frigidity disappear over time. If it lasts for a long time, the doctor should first determine whether it is related to physical diseases. If it is determined after the examination that sexual apathy is only caused by psychological reasons, measures should be taken, such as touching with a partner without sexual purpose, which can help increase libido and reduce stress.

As men age, the secretion of male hormones gradually decreases and their libido decreases, which is an objective physiological law with significant individual differences and generally does not require treatment. To maintain a harmonious marital relationship in life. When a man is sexually indifferent, his wife should not blame him. She should be more considerate to eliminate the man's tension, and at the same time touch the Sexual arousal point to stimulate and re arouse the man's Sexual arousal. If sexual frigidity is caused by a disease, the primary disease should be treated first. Drugs that affect the secretion of sex hormones should be discontinued if they are caused by drugs. In addition to the above methods, androgen drugs can be used under the guidance of a doctor according to one's own situation.

Decreased libido is related to many factors.

1. Aging. As age increases, physical function deteriorates, and the demand for sexual activity decreases, resulting in a significant decrease in sexual desire.

2. Due to work pressure and physical and mental exhaustion, as well as non sexual factors such as economic or professional concerns, sexual interest gradually decreases.

3. Habit of abnormal sexual interest makes it difficult for general sexual stimulation to trigger Sexual arousal, as well as long-term lack of heterosexual attraction or long-term neglect by partners.

4. Lack of communication in gender relationships. Both parties only have numb sexual intercourse, and sexual interest will gradually decrease.

5. Illness. The physical and mental conditions are poor, and it is difficult to cause Sexual arousal, such as systemic diseases such as diabetes, or Reproductive system disease such as chronic Prostatitis. If you stop having sex for a long time due to illness, it can also lead to a decrease in sexual desire.