Post Date December, 03 2023
Beautiful women and handsome men have incomparable attraction to the opposite sex. After all, the combination of handsome men and beautiful women is just a beautiful fairy tale on TV. In the cruel real life, what we see often runs counter to what we think. Beside beautiful women, it seems that they are often accompanied by ugly men. What exactly causes this kind of sexual wonder? Let's see the introduction of Xiaobian.
Phoenix male and peacock female
Model: Traumatic boy and naive girl
Most of the Phoenix men come from the countryside. Because of their poverty and the cruelty and hardship of life, they have left a deep imprint on their hearts: low self-esteem, strong self-esteem, hard work, and strong motivation for achievement. This makes them more successful in their career than others.
Although some Phoenix men can gradually get rid of the inferiority complex during their growth, they still have the problems of sensitivity, suspicion and inferiority complex. The peacock girl belongs to the "flower growing in the greenhouse" and does not know much about the human suffering. They are pure in heart, advocating and yearning for pure love.
"When Phoenix Man meets Peacock Girl, this is the story of a traumatized boy and an innocent girl." Wei Zhizhong said that when the two meet, Phoenix Man's rough life experience will greatly attract Peacock Girl. Because of curiosity and appreciation, the two can quickly enter the love stage. It is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with. Because Peacock Girl is too naive, while the inner world of Phoenix Man is more complex. Over time, Peacock Girl can't stand the Phoenix Man who is self-confident in appearance and inferiority in heart, so there is conflict.
Outcome: Because of the completely different family background and growth experience, the two people often end up in love with each other in two ways: one is the other; Life is colorful and fresh every day; Second; Dazzled and full of contradictions.
Suggestion: Peacock women not only see the beautiful Phoenix man, but also walk into his inferiority complex. It is better to go to his hometown to have a look, so as to truly understand the growth environment of Phoenix man. The so-called understanding → understanding → acceptance → control (grasp). Only by understanding the other person's life background can we understand the root of his words and behavior, and thus have the possibility of accepting the Phoenix Man.
Handsome guy with dinosaur
Model: a handsome man with a weak heart and a dinosaur with a strong mind
When will a handsome man choose a dinosaur sister when he matches a beautiful girl? Wei Zhizhong said that this should start from three aspects of love: 1. appearance; 2. Social status (ability); 3. Psychology. A handsome man, even if he is penniless, but he is mentally strong enough to think that he will make this golden branch and jade leaf happy in the future, so he dares to marry, and doesn't think that other girls are going to marry him. If the handsome man still has a certain social status, he will marry a fairy. Then there is only one case. The handsome guy will choose the dinosaur sister. Only when he is not strong enough psychologically, he has no confidence and can only choose the dinosaur sister to comfort himself.
A handsome man with a fragile heart can't match a beautiful woman. In their eyes, psychological balance is the most important. What he needs in his heart is precious. If the dinosaur sister is considerate and just meets his inner needs, it will be balanced. The result: because of balance and combination, and because of imbalance and byebye.
A beautiful appearance can be pleasing to the eyes and people, and it can be easier to win the favor of others. Chinese Taoism stresses the balance and complementarity of yin and yang, which is the same principle for the relationship between men and women. Handsome men and beautiful women are like two magnets with the same magnetic field. Although they are opposite, they may not attract each other. Sometimes some psychological balance is more satisfying than appearance.
