As I watched, it was once again the annual Singles' Day. And this holiday passes year after year, with girls remaining every year. Are these girls with poor qualifications? Or are you looking too shabby? Perhaps not at all. On the contrary, compared to other girls, these girls are more outstanding. So, what is the reason why they are unable to strip naked, and what is ultimately left?
1. Righteous type
It is easy to transfer the patterns of communication with the opposite sex in business and work environments to romantic relationships. One of the most significant killers of your love is being righteous. This characteristic in your work will help you gain many friends, even blue confidants. However, in life, it's easy for you to make others think of you as a good friend.
The most typical performance is to be very enthusiastic about considering the other party. Always see where he has problems, or be very clear about what kind of help he needs. Just, it makes him feel very unfulfilled and lacking in confidence. He would think that although she is very beautiful and outstanding, it's better for me to be her buddy.
2. Professional attire type
You may be surprised, what's wrong with your professional image? I am very confident when wearing professional attire! Imagine: when you get married in the future, he will face the paperback version of you at home and the hardcover version of the beautiful woman at work every day. At that time, how can you rely on professional attire to increase your confidence? Do you want to showcase your baby suit in your bedroom with all kinds of charm when he gets home from work? Men are like mountains, providing women with safety; Women are like water, giving men a harbor. When interacting with him, showcase your charm more than borrowing your business negotiation skills.
3. Extremely easy to trap body shape
Before going to bed with a man you are seriously dating, please try to ensure that you date 8 times a month for at least 3 consecutive months. If a man is always looking for a sexual partner who is easy to have sex with, and it is easier to obtain sexual satisfaction from other women than from you, he will naturally retreat because he knows that you value intimacy and are unwilling to indulge your body.
When a man is looking for a partner who can share weal and woe, he may not give up the guerrilla warfare strategy of "you enter and retreat, you stop and harass him, you tired him to fight, you retreat and pursue him". However, the difficulty of obtaining love determines your future relationship. When the difficulty level is too low or too high, it is difficult to fully unleash one's true abilities. Medium task intensity has the highest efficiency, and this "inverted U-shaped" curve is still effective for "chasing men/women". Everyone is the same, the more they give, the more they will persist. Men and women who rush to bed often suffer setbacks, as evidenced by the saying that men often regret not sleeping with a certain woman, while women often regret sleeping with a certain man.
4. Self focused
Focusing too much on oneself and not giving space to others. Although they say what I will do, in fact, all the focus is on themselves. They are looking for admirers and servants rather than boyfriends.
5. Juvenile and mentally disabled type
I am the only one, I am the most important. This is a requirement for children aged 0-5. He is required to play the role of a parent, a mentor, and a playmate of the same age. This is some of the requirements of infancy that have never been met, and now we expect a man to fulfill them. The core of men's values is not in relationships, but in social roles.
The above reasons may be the fundamental reason why you cannot get rid of being single or getting naked. So, if you want to quickly get rid of your order and no longer be a leftover girl, then you must avoid these problems.