In sexual relationships, women are often seen as the one who needs to be cared for. In fact, in today's era, men play an important role in supporting and supporting the family, and they also need care. As a woman, don't take it for granted that men are under the weight of life. Be aware of caring for and understanding men, and don't easily refuse some of their needs
1. Understanding men's pursuit and difficulties in their careers
Generally speaking, men attach great importance to their careers because it is the foundation of their social foundation, the need to enable their families to live a happier life, and the key to gaining value in life. No man takes his work and career seriously, except for those who are not ambitious and mediocre.
Although men are dedicated to their careers, they may not always be able to have a smooth sailing career. There are always times when they encounter setbacks, even crises. At this time, a man's psychological state is very fragile, and he is very eager to receive understanding and comfort from his family. Many times, men are unwilling to bring this kind of pressure and confusion home, and they may choose to silently bear it alone. At this point, as a man's wife, one should be good at using one's own carefulness to capture a man's negative emotions, rather than just complaining that a man is busy with work and career socializing and neglecting to accompany oneself. You should try to open a man's heart with care, understanding, and tolerance, and meet his desire for your understanding and support.
2. When adjusting your mood, you may go out for a drink with friends
Men who love their work and career are inevitably busy and tired every day, constantly exhausting their spirit and body. Many times, their usual way to adjust this state is to find two like-minded and like-minded friends to drink a little wine and chat about the mountains during the rare leisure time on weekends. But some women find it difficult to understand their men and believe that their daily work is all about eating and drinking. Why go out and drink?
In fact, women do not understand that daily business banquets and table socializing are difficult to relax, and can even make their nerves tense. It is completely different from drinking with good friends in private. The work table is for socializing, while the good friend table is for relaxation. In order to help their men release pressure and relax, Understanding women should still know how to meet this small need of men, as long as your men are not immoral or causing trouble after drinking, otherwise, please do not obstruct or refuse their needs.
3. When he's too tired, you need to understand more
Men find it difficult to cope with marital life when their bodies are particularly tired, and witty women should never do things like being bullied and forced to bow. Women should always pay attention to their men's state and not force them to be in a state when in bed. This can often backfire, making men embarrassed and bored. A harmonious and joyful married life is a regulator of emotions, contributing to the happiness of marriage and promoting intimacy in sexual relationships.
Women should never make small mistakes on this sensitive issue that can affect each other's emotions. The same sentence goes: Women should pay more attention to and understand their men, and usually cook more nourishing dishes for them. When a man is tired, they should take the initiative to massage him and remind him to rest in a timely manner, satisfying rather than rejecting his need not to be disturbed when he is tired.