Post Date December, 03 2023
In life, one can always hear who has ended the long-distance love journey with whom and entered the palace of marriage. The process of long-distance running can be as short as three to five years, as long as seven to eight years. Why is it so long? Most of the men are not yet ready, and as their girlfriends urge them, they gradually fall into fear of getting married; Now we will explore this issue.
In fact, in the life of couples, sometimes when a man and a woman are together for a long time, the woman wants to get married. After all, time does not spare, and women age faster than men. They hurry to get married while they are still relatively beautiful, but men will constantly delay the wedding due to the following constraints.
1、 Fear of commitment
Don't think that men are brave enough, in fact, men are also cowardly. Many men are afraid of promises and are afraid of taking responsibility for their promises. The cells that do not want to be responsible are basically the same as male hormones, rooted in male genes, with the difference being that some men have more and some men have less.
Marriage means commitment, it means being kind to this person, treating her well, and spending a lifetime with her. This promise is too long-term, like a shackle that binds him, and men don't want to spend their entire lives so quickly.
2、 Fear of taking responsibility
After getting married, men need to bear the burden of life and family finances. It is the nature of animals to seek benefits and avoid harm. This kind of man has his own small plan, and is seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.
3、 Unwilling to give up freedom
Men have many ways to satisfy their seven emotions and six desires, releasing their hormones. Why should they confine themselves in the cage of marriage and accept a life of strict wife control?
4、 Excessive pressure
Love is a matter of two people, you can go out to eat big meals every day, you can go out crazy every night, you can be a moonlight tribe... getting married is a matter of two families. When in love, we don't look at our family background or savings, we only focus on our feelings, and when we feel right, we are together. But marriage is different, and you may value both parties more when they are in the right family and when they are suitable to be your wife.
When in love, you don't have to bear too much, but after marriage, it's different. After marriage, you have to shoulder the responsibility of the entire family. Nowadays, most of the post-80s generation are only children, and you two couples have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting the four elderly families. This is a heavy burden, and the pressure is too great.
5、 Observing perfection and demanding
Many men are afraid of marriage because they have too many choices, which make them picky eaters and harder to find suitable marriage partners.
Overall, it is difficult to guess the psychology of men, but I think in the current situation, why are men afraid of getting married? Perhaps stress will occupy a greater proportion, because the mountains of houses and cars have already overwhelmed many people, and it is reasonable to be afraid of getting married.
