Post Date December, 02 2023
There must be female friends who feel annoyed because they don't understand men's hearts. But when you say you don't know what a man is thinking, it just shows that you have a desire to understand him. So here, we listened to some male thoughts and saw when they found women very troublesome. Female friends can check if they have been shot in the knee.
Send some long messages or continuous messages on LINE
I feel very noisy after receiving a long message. (Around 20 years old/male)
Receiving several consecutive messages is extremely troublesome. (Around 20 years old/male)
The term 'frequent contact' has been mentioned by many people, but there are also many who say 'if you encounter a woman you want to pursue, frequent contact is the best option'. Is this tolerance towards one's own goddess? No, because someone also said, 'If she wants me to keep in touch with her so frequently after catching her, it will feel very heavy.'.
It's easy to cry
Once an argument starts, it's easy for girls to cry and thinking that crying can solve the problem feels very troublesome. (Around 30 years old/male)
The mindset of 'crying is like a woman' seems to be irrelevant here. Women who suddenly cry when they start arguing and don't speak seem to be very troublesome to men.
A self-expression that can be seen through at a glance
If you are a girl you don't like, seeing their particularly obvious self display can be annoying. (Around 20 years old/male)
When women act for the purpose of physical contact and other careful thinking, and show it clearly, men will feel very troublesome. Although it is said that, some people also say, "If a woman I like does this, I will be very happy." Ah, the truth.
Quickly becoming sick
A person who is very depressed when there is something and says they are really useless. (Around 10 years old/male)
Girls who use their own low pressure to make the other person's mood plummet are not welcome. Continuously saying dark things can make men feel very tired. Some women are really worried, but for men, they are not as good as women in empathy. It's hard for them to encourage women.
Continuously complaining
Every time we meet, we keep complaining about how tired we feel. (Around 30 years old/male)
Women who constantly complain are not happy, so it's better to talk about happy and positive topics and have a pleasant time.
Chasing a man's past
A woman who doesn't like to pursue a man's past romance, what matters is the present. (Around 20 years old/male)
If a woman struggles with how many exes a man has in the past and where he has been on a date in the past, the man will feel unhappy. The important thing is the present. There is no need to dwell on the past or even be jealous.
Binding men
If I limit my actions, I will feel very uncomfortable, and if I limit my hobbies, I can't bear it. (Around 20 years old/male)
I can't go here. I must meet on this day every Monday. Such restrictions on the other party's actions can make men dislike them. No matter how much you like each other, two people are still independent individuals. Be sure to control yourself and not overly restrain the other party.
Just talk about your own topic
People who only talk about the topics they want to talk about do not consider the other person's feelings, right. (Around 20 years old/male)
Although women naturally enjoy chatting, people still tend to dislike women who only talk about topics related to themselves. It's better to socialize with others with a serious listening heart.
Spend money recklessly
Facing women who love spending money, I feel that the cost-effectiveness is very low in my heart.
