Post Date November, 17 2024
The trouble of orgasm in a sex clinic is that both men and women regard orgasm and continuous sexual activity as a symbol of beautiful sex. However, after carefully exploring the reasons for pursuing orgasm, it is found that what you want is not a physiological orgasm, but a brain orgasm that satisfies each other's hearts and minds!
The cases that come to the center mainly prioritize improving functional troubles.
There are many functional troubles for men and women, but various troubles can be distinguished based on their severity. Taking the early stages often mentioned by men as an example, starting from sexual activity (primary) and then ejaculating faster and faster (continuous), the timing of ejaculation can be subdivided into not entering the vagina, less than 1 minute after entering... varies from person to person.
People in serious situations, of course, have too much trouble and find it difficult to take care of each other's emotions. On the contrary, the frustration of sexual intercourse between two people leads to a climax of discussion. Just like when we eat, we first know that we are full before it tastes good. (Recommended reading: How to solve dysfunction? Four clinical suggestions for sex therapists)
A disdainful mouth for integrity
When it comes to Orgasm, the medical explanation is the reflex effect of sensory stimulation on the nervous system. There are three types of stimuli that men and women experience during sexual activity [1]:
Stimulation of direct contact with sexual organs: reactions from sexual organs such as the penis, scrotum, penis, and gt are common. Central brain stimulation: Stimulation generated by utilizing human sensations, such as reading erotic novels, movies, fantasies, etc. Brain center origin: during the rapid eye movement period during sleep, male Nocturnal penile tumescence and female penis erection are spontaneous reactions.
Under continuous stimulation, what persists is the response to orgasm. When it comes to orgasm, for men, the idea of immediate flashing in the brain is ejaculation, and direct contact with the sexual organs and stimulation of the brain center are the main common methods. However, there are various opinions on women's orgasmic reactions, such as vaginal orgasm, clitoral orgasm, gt point orgasm, vestibular orgasm, etc. It is really necessary to use oral language to explain women's orgasmic reactions. Many people say that the cry is different, the power to grab the sheets, the expression on her face is different from when she first started... It's silly. (Recommended reading: How does the body look during orgasm?)
Therefore, sexologists Masters and Johnson put forward the "sexual response period" through scientific research, which is an important discovery of sexology research and provides a description of physiological reactions - muscles can't help producing physiological phenomena such as contraction reaction, blushing, Tachypnea for reference, but there are individual differences due to people.
Physiological reactions cannot deceive people, but psychological thoughts are elusive.
I hope the climax will always come, the height of the mountains and mountains
The functional troubles in some cases are not serious, but they often fall into a state of not being as hard as before, not being as persistent as before, having a prosperous mind, and lacking strength. If your situation improves, how many minutes would you like to have sex?
Hmm... After a moment of silence, I realized that I had never considered this issue before.
Or besides the hassle of improving sexual function, do you still have expectations for sex?
Prevention is better than treatment, satisfying the other person. My boyfriend cannot tolerate the expressionless state on my face when I have sex, is worried that he doesn't like me, ejaculates too quickly, and the other person doesn't want to have sex with me... There are many answers. (Recommended reading: Story collection of the consultation room: Not couples who can't do it, but couples who don't want to do it)
As long as we carefully ask, the significance of pursuing orgasm at the psychological level is very broad. Satisfy who? What are you satisfied with? Do you know what the other person wants? How to meet it There is room for a lot of discussion.
Sex can achieve physical pleasure through sensory stimulation, as well as a high level of mental and spiritual well-being. In short, sex encompasses the part of love, including the hope of the body. We often say that for modern people, sex is not just the inheritor of the lineage, what kind of sex do you want? When does sexual intercourse occur? The self will to wait will emerge.
Sex can also become a symbol of power, just like the three thousand beautiful women in the emperor's harem. The emperor has the right to decide who will be fortunate that night. Now, the manifestation of power can be seen through spending money to buy sex, without caring about the other person's mood, and it is also a development of anticipation. What is orgasm? Physiologically, it is a bodily reaction. However, for many people, orgasm is not just about orgasm.
