Post Date November, 17 2024
Vance and Wagner (1976) conducted a group of experiments on college students. One group of college students wrote their own explanation of orgasm according to a certain program, while the other group speculated and judged the gender of the narrator, including obstetricians and gynecology doctors, psychologists, and medical school students. The statistical analysis results indicate that no matter what professional identity or gender, there is no ability to distinguish the gender of these interpreters.
That is to say, individuals cannot distinguish gender solely by using written descriptions of orgasm. This conclusion has two meanings. One is the limitation of language, which makes it difficult to express sexual orgasm experiences with gender characteristics through language. Another meaning is that the emotional experiences of sexual climax may be similar. From the text describing orgasm, it can be seen that most of them are subjective descriptions of physical and emotional experiences, which are related to each person's different language proficiency, emotional depth, and other similar subjective feelings in their life experience. The difference in orgasm description lies in each person's subjectivity, and different people have different orgasm experiences. Therefore, orgasm is mostly a psychological sensation, followed by a local genital response!
What inspiration does this discovery have for young partners who want to improve the quality of sex? Many romantic partners hope to bring a satisfying climax to each other, but because they are too concerned about their emotions and neglect their own experience, they ignore their consciousness, accept, and express their psychological feelings, not knowing what it is. They may have experienced the same psychological needs and reactions as the other party. Similarly, for those who may be more concerned about their own satisfaction and neglect their partner's emotions, they should respect the other party's emotions, Asking the other party about their feelings should not only satisfy themselves but also protect them. If both parties can maintain empathy for the other party in sex, it will naturally bring about coordinated and balanced high-quality sex, and achieve the physical and mental harmony of the sun and moon at the moment of sharing a wonderful orgasm.
1. The principle of female priority enables women to achieve orgasm first, and men who feel fearful or have sexual problems are more important. Sometimes, seeing women reaching orgasm is the most effective stimulus and arousal for these problematic men, and their haze and fear are swept away. If women can achieve orgasm first, sexual disharmony will decrease. Clinical studies abroad have shown that women who can achieve orgasm first have significantly fewer physical and mental problems than those who achieve orgasm later.
2. Fully utilizing non genital stimulation techniques, including prior caressing and the use of hand and mouth stimulation methods, to effectively provide sufficient stimulation for the two sensitive areas (clitoris and G-spot) of women, is an important and necessary condition for women to achieve orgasm. It is difficult for most women to achieve orgasm solely through sexual intercourse, as it cannot effectively stimulate these two sensitive areas of personality. Therefore, only about one-third of women frequently experience orgasm, and women have more than 80% of the chance of achieving orgasm.
