Sexual Health
What to do with a female partner's frigidity? What can she do to arouse her desire for sexual activity
If the wife or female partner is not interested in sexual life, her symptoms are likely to be female frigidity, and both parties should cooperate to go to the hospital for medical treatment.
How important sex is
Your husband loves you in every way, but when you have sex, you are in a daze and just can't get interested. You are widely recognized as a good woman with excellent appearance, but your husband cannot feel your tenderness or the warmth of love you bring to him. If this continues, even good men will want to find other women. You are charming and charming, hovering among several men in your work, but for men, no one thinks you are not sexy. What should you do? Sexual crises are like nightmares, affecting your quality of life as a woman.
The GBH Psychological Association of the United States points out that nearly 40% of workplace women are experiencing a sexual crisis to some extent. Rome was not built in a day. As a professional woman, your sexual crisis has become a major issue in life, directly affecting your image in the workplace.
It's not that I don't love my husband
I am 35 years old this year, and my husband and son, who are senior executives in the company, are my favorites. It should be said that at this age, we often have passionate sex with each other, right? But I can't get interested.
When I first got married, I had a loving and loving relationship with my husband, and their sexual life was very touching and harmonious. Since giving birth to a child, it has been difficult for me to have sex with him completely relaxed. A few days ago, just after my 35th birthday, my husband bought flowers and booked a table at the hotel to celebrate my birthday. In fact, I am aware that he wants to use this to increase my interest in sexual life, improve our sexual lifestyle, and hope to be as lingering and happy as in the years after our wedding. My husband's kindness and urging always make me feel a bit confused and at a loss. Moreover, my personality is relatively slow and hot, and I am definitely not the kind of person who can easily express emotions in a flash. Faced with the warm and thoughtful care in his eyes, I feel uneasy and uneasy.
Strangely, it's not that I don't love my husband. The busier my work, the more I feel about how important it is for my husband to be by my side and have a deep bond with me. However, I always don't have time to calm down and think about our sexual life. During the day, we are busy at work, and at night, when we come home, we just want to fall asleep. The only state of exhaustion every day is fatigue. I think, even if we have sex, can this mental state be okay?
Doctor's advice:
1. Value sexual life. For women, sexual life is an important part of life. Any attitude of avoidance and contempt is incorrect. Try to relax your emotions and disperse the pressure of work, which can help you grasp your sexual pulse.
2. Spend more time. Many professional women spend too much time on work, and when it comes to sexual life, they always refuse on the grounds of work pressure, bad mood, etc. Over time, they will confine themselves to a space with a cold personality, and their husbands will also see you as a different person.
3. Learn techniques for communicating with the opposite sex. Skills are necessary for interaction between the sexes. You should know how to open the curtain of sex, how to attract the other person's attention, and even take the initiative to attack on nights that have special significance for couples.
4. A calm mindset. Regardless of your current state, a good and healthy mindset is essential. When taken care of by a husband, there is the joy of being taken care of, and when having sex, there is the joy of having sex. The important thing is to face it with a calm attitude at all times, so that we can live a healthy life.
There are many reasons for female frigidity
Among female sexual dysfunction, low libido and decreased orgasmic function are the most common. Data shows that among the 4700 married women surveyed, 23% suffer from frigidity and lack of sexual appeal. There are quite a few reasons for this phenomenon.
Mental and psychological factors: such as receiving incorrect sex education at a young age, believing that sexual activity is licentious and unclean behavior, which suppresses sexual desire; In addition, nervousness, depression, anxiety, and other factors can also affect the generation of sexual desire.
The various anxieties and fears left over from past malignant stimuli, such as the pain and sequelae caused by unmarried abortions and frequent miscarriages, can also cause sexual apathy.
Lack of sexual knowledge: If couples do not understand the physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women, do not understand the differences in sexual reactions between men and women, ignore warmth, and make their wives unable to experience pleasure and orgasm during sexual life, over time, it will also make their wives uninterested in sexual life.
Poor marital relationship: An unhappy marriage and aversion to the spouse, even hatred, can also lead to sexual apathy. Poor physical functioning, such as overwork or illness, can also be a cause of frigidity.
Targeted treatment based on the current situation
In addition to medication, psychogenic therapy (psychological support and correction) is also an important part of the treatment for female sexual dysfunction. When your wife experiences this situation, as a husband, you should work with her to identify the true causes of psychological disorders and address them step by step. It is also possible for doctors to distinguish whether it is a physiological problem or a mental disorder, and the two should not be confused. A clear diagnosis is necessary for effective treatment.