What to do when sexual desire is low after marriage? Tips for saving a couple's sexual life

For many male friends, their sexual desire after marriage may not be as good as before, and it may become lower and lower. So, what should we do when it comes to lower and lower sexual desire? Next, let's work with the editor to understand what to do when sexual desire decreases. For the vast majority of men who have little sexual interest, women taking the initiative can stimulate men's ambition, arouse their potential desires, and free them from taking on the responsibility of the protagonist in sexual life. Many people think that frigidity is only a common problem of Sexual dysfunction among women, while experts have found that frigidity is not the patent of women.

Married men have lower desires. Many women believe that men's sexual desires are very strong. This idea stems from their experiences in Girls'Generation. Because at that time, young men of their age were in a period of sexual arousal. In fact, a 20 year old man may always want to do "that thing," but for adult married men, they are more inclined towards various levels of marital communication, rather than just satisfying sexual demands. Psychologists pointed out that adolescent men are indeed more Sexual fantasy than women. They tend to confuse emotional needs with sexual needs, and sometimes they just want to meet emotional needs through sex.

But as we age, work pressure and family burden can weaken the strong sexual desire of adolescence. Of course, there are also a few men who have consistently strong sexual desires, which cannot be generalized. A survey also found that among couples with disharmonious sexual lives, the one who experiences sexual apathy is often the husband. Men in the middle and old age sometimes only need a hug, a light kiss, or intimate whispers. Pure sexual intercourse is not very attractive to married men. We call it "frigidity" when a man is uninterested in sex continuously or repeatedly, lacks the subjective desire to engage in sexual activities, including sexual dreams and Sexual fantasy, lacks the awareness of participating in sexual activities, and has no sense of frustration even if he is deprived of his sexual activities.

There are various psychological and physiological factors that can lead to a decrease in male sexual desire after marriage. This state can be caused by a lack of sexual knowledge, and many men believe that 'one drop of semen, ten drops of blood'. Sexual activity (including masturbation) can affect a person's lifespan and damage their vitality. Bad lifestyle and irregular sexual habits, poor living conditions, lack of freshness in sexual activity, insufficient communication of sexual needs and sensations, lack of mutual interest and trust between spouses, and men often feeling depressed and anxious about not being able to satisfy their wives, all of which can lead to low sexual desire in their sons.