Post Date December, 02 2023
Entering a relationship, the management of the relationship is a process of mutual growth for both lovers. The two have gone through ups and downs together for love, moving towards a more mature stage together, and making the love more firm. However, not everyone's love is in this positive direction. There will always be a significant other who is like a mother who is not growing up, and a girlfriend around will be like finding a nanny.
There are various types of people in love, such as Mombo, Prince, and Princess. These people are always a "need" for love, requiring coaxing and love, but rarely making emotional progress. When we are all in this kind of love, have we become a nanny in love? Or should we just give up such a mama and seek another more mature love.
Never clear the boundary between love and friendship
After entering a relationship, it is time to draw a clearer line between friendship and love. If your boyfriend still spends a lot of time indulging with those pink confidants, such behavior is very immature. If these people are really good friends today, that's all. When he is willing to spend a lot of time with these unimportant people again, his playfulness has not actually stopped, I didn't plan to focus on this relationship, and this behavior is very immature.
I always feel that I have paid more in love than anyone else
Selfishness is a big problem that many people encounter in their relationships. Many people just blindly ask for the other party to pay, but they are unwilling to do the same thing. Or once they have paid something in love, they will publicize it, hoping that you can see how much they have done to you, and ask for how much in return. At the same time, they ignore what their other half has done, and always feel that the other half has never given enough. Such lovers are selfish, It is also a childish behavior that cannot compare one's heart to another.
Using many immature behaviors to gain attention
It is natural for a child to receive appropriate attention, but when transitioning to adulthood, how to be cared for is even more a sign of maturity. He can talk, discuss, and use mature methods to obtain comfort. However, some lovers, when they discover that they are gradually becoming indifferent, do not identify the symptoms of the problem. Instead, they use more intense and childish behaviors to attract others' attention, whether stimulated by words or actions, in the hope that you can take a good look at them, but over time, they are very tired of dealing with emotional matters like this.
The sweetheart's kindness to you is not taken for granted
Some lovers always say, 'Because you're my girlfriend, it's right to help me do something!'! As long as the other half can speak these words, this person can consider leaving. Such a person not only disrespects the other party, but also easily takes everything for granted, just like parents do. Such a person is definitely not compatible with continuing to get along.
Never learn to communicate rationally
The best difference between maturity and naivety is whether they can use rationality to communicate. Everyone has emotions, and they are angry and sad. However, in the face of such emotions, can they be well digested and communicated in suitable ways, instead of using emotional methods such as crying, making trouble, hanging, or the cold war to solve them? If they all face difficulties in this way, is there any difference between them and children?
When you discover in your love that your partner is such a naive person, it is likely that you are in this relationship as a nanny, constantly taking care of an adult like a mother treasure. In the face of such a person, you can choose to give up, but you can also choose to learn more about his background story, whether he has been hurt in the past, and change some of his personality. Perhaps you can become a person who changes him, allowing him to return to the path of maturity.
