Speak less and use your brain more
The mistake we often make is to talk too much and do too little. Over time, it will make people feel that you are not the kind of down-to-earth person. So, when it comes to dealing with one's own love, it may seem like letting nature take its course, but one must definitely strive first.
If you don't know how to use your brain, then even if love comes, you don't know how to keep it by your side. So after breaking up, you first sort out your thoughts. If you really love someone, then you must give yourself a chance and strive to keep them by your side.
Everything requires a lot of effort. Those who have a will may not always succeed, but those who have a heart often achieve their wishes.
Don't rush for success, work hard to salvage it
If you contact the other party and they directly block you, blackmail you, or refuse to answer your phone calls, then there is no communication platform between you.
So, even if the other party knows you want to save them, they don't really dislike you, so although you break up, there is still a connection between you. So perhaps a trigger point could spark a resurgence of old love. You should know that emotions are always changing, and there is nothing that is never impossible.
Think about Wu Zetian, who was not favored by Emperor Taizong of Tang and Li Shimin back then, but the reason for her rebellion was entirely due to her good intentions. If a person puts their heart into doing something, the outcome is definitely different.
Not stingy in showcasing talent and kindness
If you are a kind and talented person, please showcase and present yourself. Men always like to measure a person with facts, while women always like to judge a person with emotions.
The most beautiful time in a person's life must be presented to the person they love. That's how you become yourself. When your kindness and talent cannot sustain your confidence, then demonstrate your easygoing demeanor to make others remember the most beautiful you.
All efforts are aimed at saving the other party. If you have tried your best, but still cannot retrieve love, then even if you obey the will of heaven, you will never complain again.
Even after many years, if the other person comes back to you, you can still handle them calmly. Because there is no real miss, when you love someone, they don't love you. When the other person loves you, your love has become a thing of the past.
How much love in the world is always after parting, and how much love is always felt and textured due to breaking up. If you encounter a high-quality lover, then you must love with your heart, because once you let go of this love, you don't know if it will start over again.
If you accidentally break up, you should also try to find a way to save the other party, and pour out all your emotions to move the other party in order to save love. Don't be empty and sorrowful after many years. Life is short, and many things cannot be done again in time. Therefore, when encountering them, seize them well. True love must withstand the test of time. If you miss it, regret it today, and you will also regret it in the future.