Post Date December, 03 2023
When you encounter a very scheming woman who intervenes in your marriage, you must be furious and don't know what to do. But please remain calm and think of ways to resist foreign enemies first. When fighting against the enemy, you must first settle the situation, so first take care of your husband and then work together with him to deal with the scheming mistress. The following seven steps teach you to use your husband's hand to drive away the mistress.
Trust your husband and don't mess around
Try to remain calm, at least in the eyes of outsiders, you are nothing unusual. Especially when you know that the third party intentionally exposes information (the third party intentionally calls when your husband is at home), you have to pretend to know nothing. Because once you explode, you are deceived. Keep your dark enemies clear, in order to have the chance to win.
2 Good Husbands' Wallets
Don't let your husband have too much discretionary working capital. Even if his money won't go to you, you can still dilute it out of his hands by buying gifts for his parents and your children. There are various ways to buy gifts, and when he sees you buying things for his parents, he will definitely not refuse and will think you are filial. Buying gifts for his children is not a problem. Don't feel heartbroken. If you don't spend it for him, I will spend it for you. At the same time, when it comes to saving at home for a fixed period (even if you haven't), tell him that there aren't any major expenses in the near future, and that saving a fixed period can earn interest to subsidize household expenses. However, if he's dissatisfied, it won't help.
Dress up and enhance your charm
Use your husband's money to buy more clothes that suit you, and dress yourself up beautifully. Don't continue to be a yellow faced woman, let your husband notice that your changes are attracted to you. Don't be too meticulous when other women interfere in your marriage. If you can't bear to spend your family money, your husband will spend it on other women. When one's charm surpasses that of a mistress, you can attract your husband's gaze without doing anything.
4. Use family ties to tie up your husband
The mistress has discovered that your husband is no longer so generous with her, and will definitely have dissatisfaction and complaints towards him. Even if the mistress is not interested in money, she is not afraid to find a way to make her husband go home more. Solicit the opinions of her husband's family and children and organize family travel activities, such as weekend mountain climbing, short distance travel, etc. Most men who can find a mistress are leisurely. You need to keep your husband's heart busy and not have time to deal with the mistress's affairs. Don't take care of household chores alone; The education of children involves the participation of husbands; Visit both parents more with your husband; Tell your husband (in moderation) more about the troubles you encounter and ask him to take action for you.
5. Focus on the areas related to husband's work and hobbies
There is a golden house in books, and there is a poetic and scholarly atmosphere in the belly. Learn to read and become a person with extensive and profound experience. Strong love is the ability to say many things together and use what you have learned to chat with your husband about topics he is interested in. Furthermore, for example, if a husband loves to watch football games, buy him a ticket to accompany him to watch the game and his favorite football stars on site.
Let the third party see your love
When you and your husband become increasingly affectionate and let the mistress know through multiple channels that you are actually very affectionate. Many men will confide in their disagreement with their wives to make them believe that their hearts are not at home. Your message will make them feel that your husband's words and actions are inconsistent, and they will naturally make trouble with your husband. The more trouble you make, the more they want to stay away from him.
Clarify the facts and let your husband choose
When your husband gradually returns to his family and the balance in his heart leans more towards you, you can calmly tell him that you know about him and the mistress. If he truly loves the mistress (knowing he is playing), you can help them. Your husband will definitely say that he is sincere to you. You took the opportunity to cut him off from Xiao San, and he had to agree.
Through the above seven steps, I believe that you, who are smart, can make your husband take the initiative to break up with Xiao San. I wish you happiness.
