What should couples pay attention to when cohabiting? Before cohabiting, couples should first pass the five levels

In this open society, it seems natural for lovers to cohabit. However, before cohabiting, one must consider how to spend it. It is best to reach consensus on several aspects. Otherwise, after cohabitation, the only convenience is sex. When trivial matters constantly test your relationship, the passion for sex may not be able to save the passage of love. Therefore, it is important to note that couples must first pass the following five levels before cohabiting.

Firstly, the relationship between the parents of both parties

If his parents still treat him as a child and hope that you can coax him like him, and he also enjoys the treatment of being a son, but your maternal nature is not so strong, which will cause a lot of friction in the future; If the parents of both parties do not get along well, it will be difficult to achieve even superficial harmony, which will also become a problem; If you don't like his parents, or if he doesn't like your parents, it will also become a hidden danger to future happiness.

Secondly, holiday closure

On holidays, he likes to sleep in and wake up early to tidy up his room. He can't argue yet, and arguments are inevitable. Only parents can tolerate the friction caused by differences in wake-up times; On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive and always unable to make up their minds, what they do together on weekends, or on the contrary, always making rough decisions about what to do, it can lead to unhappiness.

But this is relatively easy to solve. Both parties can make a rule, such as Saturday is the female birthday, Sunday is the male birthday, and girls' day should prioritize girls, and everything should be according to the girls' preferences. vice versa.

Third: 'Child' level

Can consensus be reached in discussions about children. Before marriage, it is important to delve into this topic and know if the other party's ideas align with their overall direction. For example, whether children are needed, whether children are needed, whether duck style education is needed, whether personality development is needed, etc.

Fourthly, household relationships

In fact, it not only includes who should do how much household chores, but also needs to pay attention to some small things. For example, if one person likes to litter, the distance between one person's hanger and another person's hanger is almost the same, if one person likes to tidy up anything, the other person's magazine will be disposed of as soon as they read it, and even the difference between squeezing toothpaste is small, such details often become the fuse of a quarrel.

Fifth, the fiscal power is crucial