Post Date November, 17 2024
A perfect sexual life can enhance the relationship between couples and also enjoy spiritual stimulation. However, many people are unable to have sex smoothly. So, what psychology can disrupt sexual activity?
1. Depression
Mr. A and Ms. B have only been married for five years, but their sexual life is already quite boring. Ms. B is no longer interested in having sex, and Mr. A is in a bad mood due to being rejected. They often feel uncomfortable about this, mainly due to Ms. B's frustration. Six months ago, Ms. B's mother passed away, and she was very sad, resulting in emotional depression. And A Jun doesn't understand that his wife's depression will last for six months and he loses interest in sex. In fact, everyone will experience depression when encountering emotional damage, economic problems, work setbacks, or being under extreme pressure. With the help of a psychologist, Mr. A realized that he should be more understanding of his wife, while Ms. B also felt that he should be relieved of his depression through treatment and committed to improving their relationship. Through hard work, Mr. A and Ms. B's relationship gradually returned to normal.
2. Selfishness
After ten years of marriage, both Mr. C and Ms. D lost interest in sex. Through psychological counseling, it was found that the problem lies in a lack of mutual praise and support. During the consultation, Mr. C complained that Ms. D took everything he did for granted, and Ms. D acknowledged this. But she said he never praised her or paid attention to her. A man's lack of praise is equally terrifying as a woman's lack of praise, both of which can lead to emotional flaws. After consulting, Mr. C and Ms. D realized the importance of mutual praise and enthusiasm.
3. Sexual taboos
E Jun and Ms. F have been married for four years, and E Jun's sexual incompetence is becoming increasingly severe. E Jun is in a painful situation due to sexual taboos. He believes that 'good girls' should not be related to sex. As he believes that his wife is a' good girl ', he always feels nervous and blames himself when having sex with his wife, and eventually develops a reluctance to have sex with her. The psychologist told E Jun to try to adopt a more open attitude towards sex and openly discuss this issue with Ms. E. And when unable to engage in sexual activity, don't always think about it. Learn relaxation training to improve anxiety and tension at this time. Finally, E Junke overcame this problem and had a normal and happy sexual life with his wife.
4. Sexual Myth
Although sex myths and taboos are two extremes, they can also harm sexual relationships, as exemplified by G Jun and his wife. G Jun has some friends of bachelors who often boast about their sexual adventures. G Jun also saw performances introducing sexual techniques in some TV videos. He gradually felt lost and thought that his relationship with his wife was not as wonderful as others. The psychologist told him that this kind of sexual competition is against nature and divorced from reality. G Jun and his wife finally realized that they were deceived by exaggerated sexual myths.
5. Lack of adaptability
Marriage is a series of relationships that take place year after year: getting married, having children, having a family and starting a business, and then retiring on their own... Psychologists believe that every time a couple moves from one stage of life to another, they must adjust their marital relationship, and during periods of change, their sexual life may come to an end for a period of time. After getting married for several years and having a child who is about to start school, K Jun and L Ms. began to feel that they could no longer adapt to each other, and their sexual life came to a halt as a result. Through psychological counseling, they realized that the problem lies in their inability to adapt to the new relationship of having children. They are not only husband and wife now, they are also parents, which means they play both roles at the same time, and they must adjust their respective mindset to get along harmoniously. After they adapted, the sexual relationship returned to normal and once again became something that made them happy.
The above are the psychological factors that can disrupt sexual life, and we must not have these psychological factors. Sexual activity should be a pleasure for both parties and should not become a burden.
