Post Date December, 03 2023
Love always makes people feel very beautiful. When a woman first falls in love or is just pursued by a boyfriend, men often treat their girlfriend with all their heart and soul, and their attitude towards you is obedient. Whatever you say, they will spoil and love everything. However, once they fall in love or get married, men's attitude towards women will change, so many women will complain that men have changed, How can a woman hold onto a man's heart and make him only love you? Today, let's learn from the editor what methods can hold onto a man's heart.
1. Distance
Distance is a feeling of missing each other in two places. Of course, what I mean by love here is not about missing each other in two places, but about the distance between the soul, the distance between the body, and the faintly visible distance.
When a woman first falls in love or is first pursued by a boyfriend, a man is completely devoted and dotes on you in a thousand ways
Emotional, but once in love, after marriage, men will change. Many married women often complain that men have changed, and once they get a hand, they don't cherish it anymore. Actually, the fault lies with the woman, and the fault lies in the woman not knowing how to maintain distance, but letting her husband change from heaven to earth after marriage and before falling in love. So how can a man cherish you equally after marriage and before love?
That woman must maintain her pre romantic attitude, personality, and simplicity. Before falling in love, every woman takes great care of her image, dresses up, and maintains a distance from her beloved man. If she doesn't dress neatly, she definitely dares not go on a date with her boyfriend. Even when dating together, girls will show off as elegant, graceful, and shy. In fact, this is a kind of distance, and what about married women?
Because over time, I think I have become too familiar with my husband, so I completely forget the beauty of love. I don't pay attention to my image, my language, and even my shy expression. When you ask a man why things have changed and why he doesn't love me, I believe your man will also refute you in his heart, saying, "You, a woman, have also changed, different from before love
So, married women, even if you let your beloved man marry you, don't forget your most beautiful and lovely side before falling in love.
When a woman first falls in love or is first pursued by her boyfriend, a man is completely devoted, doting on you and full of passion. However, once in love and married, the man will change, and many married women often complain that the man has changed.
2. Playing coquettish
Playing coquettish is a woman's nature. Girls are more likely to play coquettish from birth, and when they play coquettish with their parents from childhood, adults tend to spoil them immensely. After falling in love and getting married, it is often women who act coquettishly, who are the most able to please their husbands. Some women will say, "That's a child. I've grown up so old and still act coquettishly in front of my husband. It's embarrassing, and my husband will also look down on me
So let me tell you, this idea is incorrect because in contemporary society, there is no man who doesn't like a woman who doesn't act coquettishly, especially when facing his own wife. As a man, his wife only maintains a serious and dignified face, and even doesn't know how to act coquettishly. So I think living with you is extremely tasteless. If it were a wealthy husband, What methods can you use to capture the heart of your man when he meets a better woman than you?
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After marriage, women should not make themselves look heavy all day due to childbirth or family troubles, but forget about their husband who has been taking care of you. At this time, women should occasionally learn to play coquettish with their husband, let their men look at you in a different way, take care of you with joy, and love you. This is also the most basic way for a woman to capture a man's heart.
As the saying goes, if a woman acts coquettishly, a man's heart will faint under your pomegranate skirt.
3. Praise
Many women understand and can say these two words, but often some women say things that are not appropriate for the occasion or person. What is praise?
When a woman first falls in love or is first pursued by her boyfriend, a man is completely devoted, doting on you and full of passion. However, once in love and married, the man will change, and many married women often complain that the man has changed.
Women praising men is also the most important factor. And the man's favorite words are the woman he loves, constantly praising and appreciating him. Many women do not do this well enough, often praising their husbands in front of friends, how outstanding and outstanding they are.
And when they are truly with their husbands, they are more like shrews, often gossiping and nagging in front of their husbands, complaining that this is not good, and that is not good. Some women keep picking on their own men's problems and comparing with others' husbands, which is the biggest mistake of women. Although the speaker is not intentional, the listener is intentional, and the more women find fault and criticism in front of men, Men who listen too much will also hate and resent you from the bottom of their hearts.
If at this point men encounter an affair and find that the other person is so gentle, affectionate, and understanding, would they still care about their nagging, shrewd wife at home?
Of course, choosing to have an affair instead of a wife. Even if he doesn't divorce you, does it make you feel uncomfortable and heartbroken to feel like you're wearing a green hat and secretly dating someone? That's why some women don't praise their husbands. It's also an important factor that won't capture my husband's heart.
4. Career
In contemporary society, trends are advancing, leading to the emergence of many strong women, namely wealthy business women or white-collar workers. Often, such women are either unmarried or married at an advanced age, and their husbands are not as good as themselves. They use their wives' money to take care of their mistresses outside, and such examples should be seen more frequently. As the saying goes, career is also one aspect.
If a woman wants to tie her husband's heart, she cannot be too strong or often appear in public, allowing her career to develop and surpass her husband, and allowing her strength to surpass her husband.
In that case, the man next to you will silently feel helpless and disheartened.
A man who marries a woman and goes home, of course, having money is a good thing, but if a woman is superior to her husband in terms of mind, career, and life, and sometimes even acts like a teacher, giving lessons and explanations to her husband, I think such a man will feel very embarrassed and humiliated. Although he doesn't say it, it's strange that he doesn't have a lover outside when he meets such a wife.
The wife that a man wants to marry all his life is the one he can take care of, make his wife like a kitten in his arms, take care of her, love her, and give her a peaceful and happy harbor.
Women who are superior to their husbands are usually not treated with sincerity by men. If a man is compared to the sun, all he wants is a small star around him that can illuminate and warm her at all times. Instead of a universe bigger than him, trampling him to the ground and never leaving this circle.
Editor's conclusion: Did you get the methods I organized today? Women all hope that their significant other can only love themselves, and they hope that their significant other will always spoil and love them, without changing their hearts. If they want to do this, they need to learn how to grasp their significant other's heart. Friends who are not yet familiar with them should get to know each other well, so that they can live a happy life.
