The exchange of feelings should be based on the principle of justice; Language communication should be considerate and tolerant; It is natural for us to get along with each other without violating reason; It is normal to use money within your means.
How should couples get along? There are three classes of couples. Which class are you? There are six points for reference:
What kind of husband are you?
A good husband: Go home and help his wife with the housework. He will think that his wife is busy with work and housework. It must be hard. When he comes home from work, he will sympathize with his wife's hard work and help her with housework. Such a husband must be a good husband.
Moderate husband: go home and drink tea and read newspapers to praise his wife. A husband who can't help with household chores will at least praise his wife and thank her for her efforts when he comes home, even though he drinks tea and reads newspapers. In this way, my wife can enjoy it no matter how hard she works.
Inferior husband: Go home and be arrogant, disrelish the east and disrelish the west. He is the most hardworking and thinks he has paid the most to his family. Either the wife's cooking is not good, or the wife can't dress up and looks bad.
The first-class wife: The family is clean, virtuous and polite. As the saying goes, "A good wife in a family is like a good minister in a state." A good wife can save money, manage the family properly, maintain the environment clean and tidy, have a warm, respectful and gentle attitude, be considerate and considerate, and behave courteously, filial piety and obedience, so that the husband can have no worries.
Moderate wife: condole and praise her husband's hard work. Shakespeare said, "A good wife, besides dealing with housework, also has three identities: a loving mother, a good partner and a lover." Therefore, a wife with poor housekeeping skills should at least be able to say good things, and should often condone and praise her husband's hard work and efforts.
Low-grade wife: nagging, mean and selfish. Not only is she not good at managing the family, but also she will nag when her husband comes home after a hard day's work. She either hates his career for making too little money, or complains about his poor living and clothes, which will only make her husband feel like a prison.
Many failed marriages are due to their inability to understand each other's hard work and to appreciate their efforts. Therefore, the way of a couple starts with mutual appreciation and understanding. When they encounter difficulties and obstacles, they can help each other to overcome difficulties and leave together. Only then can the marriage be happy.