Post Date December, 02 2023
Whether you are convinced or not, in real life, it is not so difficult to be a great lover. As long as you are not part of the mass entertainment film and television industry, only in a limited network of people, you do not need to be too handsome or sunny, as long as you make people feel that you are energetic, do not need to be very rich, as long as you are not bald and do not get fat.
Of course, there are two "prints" to be collected: one is not to be stingy, the other is to keep humor. Originally, only one of these two "prints" can attract women's full attention. If you have these two qualities at the same time, then you can make the women around you crazy, then you are not a great lover?
He is only a clerk in the company, but he can turn women of any age in the company into their supporters without leaving any gaps: occasionally tell the elder sister about her worries, or tell jokes like the stars and the moon, and do any errands and strenuous work without a word of hesitation, and never refuse female colleagues of any weight level to ride a motorcycle.
He is married. His wife was the daughter of a family friend, and was fascinated by him because of all the above characteristics. Later, she married. Everyone in the company knows the fact that he is married, but there is a girl who can't let him go.
The girl was originally a chooser. Because her family conditions were good and her figure and appearance were average, the conditions for choosing a partner became narrower and narrower, and she was still unmarried at the age of 29. The problem is that we didn't expect her to pester him and take the initiative to invite him to tea and play. Such distractions are fun for him, and when he goes, he goes, but everyone urges him to avoid them when he knows that she is distracted. Why do you like lighting an oil lamp, and specially select a long wick to make the fire more lively? Of course, he knows how to deal with matters between men and women, so he doesn't care much, but the girl clearly enjoys the feeling of being aloof.
I believe that some men's selfishness is buried in the core of the reason "can't bear to hurt". Why let her hope for results? Why not let her overcome her disappointment in reality faster? Such men are selfish because they agree that they need to use the admiration of the opposite sex. They believe that only when someone responds appropriately to their own characteristics can they prove that they are very important. All this has affected his self-esteem again!
Should she sacrifice her feelings or his self-esteem? The sober people around him all felt that it was cruel to continue the gentle dating, but he had become hopelessly inclined to the latter.
