Post Date December, 03 2023
Premature ejaculation is not a new word, and many male friends also have this situation. It is a disease second only to impotence, and is the most common male sexual dysfunction disease in clinical practice. But many people do not have the correct understanding of premature ejaculation. What is the true condition of premature ejaculation? Many friends are confused. Now let's invite experts to introduce this problem in detail.
Different people have different understandings of premature ejaculation, and the meaning of premature ejaculation told by each patient is very confused. The diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation vary greatly, and a generally accepted definition of premature ejaculation has not yet been reached. According to the research of a foreign sexologist, Fiser, only 27% of women often reach orgasm in less than one minute of married life, while 66% of women need more than 12 minutes of married life to reach orgasm. Fiser maintains that women need an average of 8 minutes of marital life to reach orgasm frequently. Therefore, some people criticized the definition of premature ejaculation put forward by Masters and Johnson, the famous couple scholars in American sexology. Their husband and wife believed that: "Half of the time in the process of sexual life, men can't extend the ejaculation time in order to make their spouses reach orgasm. This criterion of judging whether men have premature ejaculation based on their sexual life satisfaction or whether they can reach orgasm is obviously too strict, and the difference is too large, which will make a large number of men face the embarrassment of" premature ejaculation disease ", so it is unscientific. It will further reduce the self-esteem of men, damage the relationship between husband and wife, and affect sexual harmony.
At present, most experts and scholars believe that during the life of a husband and wife, ejaculation occurs before the man's erect penis is inserted into the woman's vagina, or just before it is inserted, or just after it is inserted, and the penis then shrinks, making the life of the husband and wife unable to continue, and the termination is called premature ejaculation. Some people also believe that after the penis enters the vagina, it ejaculates less than one minute in the state of movement, or the penis ejaculates less than 15 times in the vagina, which can be called premature ejaculation. In short, premature ejaculation is characterized by premature ejaculation after erection, which affects sexual life and sexual satisfaction of both parties. However, it is worth pointing out that the ejaculation that can persist for more than one minute but can not maintain the female orgasm is mostly due to the tacit understanding and poor coordination between the two parties. As long as the man is not alone, or never considerate and caring for the woman, it must be because the husband and wife are not skilled in life experience, or do not know the secret of coordination, or do not master the sexual technology.
In addition, it is not possible to judge whether the man has premature ejaculation based on whether the woman has sexual pleasure. This is because the woman's sexual pleasure is also related to many other factors, such as the woman's emotion, the man's caress, the tenderness after the event, and the position of the husband and wife's life. As for the duration of husband and wife's life, it is also closely related to age, physical strength, sexual life experience, husband and wife's life position, penis twitch amplitude, frequency and women's sexual response. Even if the same person ejaculates at different rates in each couple's life, such as the first couple's life after marriage, the reunion after a long separation, or the first couple's life after abstinence, due to the man's excessive excitement, ejaculation occurs very quickly, even premature ejaculation, which is completely normal. Don't worry about it. As the number of couples' lives increases, it will be adjusted to the normal level. Through the improvement of sexual ability training, both sides can strengthen close cooperation to achieve mutual satisfaction and harmonious sexual life.
I believe that through the introduction of the above content, we have learned what is real premature ejaculation. Friends can judge their own situation in life. If there is premature ejaculation, we must treat it in time.
