Post Date November, 16 2024
1、 Sexual Harmony
In order to achieve a harmonious sexual life, couples must understand basic sexual knowledge, especially the normal differences in male and female functions. Otherwise, couples cannot cooperate with each other in a tacit manner. In summary, there are the following differences in male and female functions:
(1) Male sexual desire is strong and vigorous, and female sexual desire that can cause Sexual arousal at any time is relatively weak. Sexual arousal is related to the Menstrual cycle (generally high sexual desire before and after ovulation and before menstruation). A few women have weak sexual desire before marriage, and their sexual desire gradually increases during the process of sexual intercourse after marriage.
(2) Men are quick in impulse, fast in orgasm, and fast in losing libido. Generally, it takes about 2~6 minutes (or 3~15 minutes) for men from sexual intercourse to ejaculation, and 10~30 minutes (or 5~15 minutes) for women to be slow in impulse
(3) Male sexual desire is concentrated on the sexual organs, while female sexual desire with very high sexual desire is extensive and complex, including laughter, warmth, caressing, etc. Only after reaching a certain level of excitement can they have sexual intercourse requirements. The ideal sexual life is for both parties to reach orgasm simultaneously, with women reaching orgasm and men ejaculating. After women reach orgasm, it does not affect the continuity of sexual intercourse. Unlike men, women can reproduce orgasm with pleasure in a short period of time (the degree of sexual pleasure varies from person to person). The level of pleasure during sexual activity varies for the same person.
2. Sexual intercourse frequency
The appropriate frequency of sexual intercourse is a difficult question to answer. The strength of sexual desire varies from person to person, and the same person is also influenced by various factors such as age, physique, personality, occupation, climate, environment, and emotions. Therefore, the frequency of sexual activity cannot be mechanically specified and must be adjusted appropriately based on the specific situation of both parties. During the newlyweds' period, they have strong sexual desire and frequent sexual intercourse. A few months before marriage, usually 2-3 times a week. As you age, it gradually decreases to 1-2 weeks. People with poor health tend to have fewer occurrences. It is common for couples to reunite after a long separation and have frequent sexual intercourse, but it must be appropriately controlled.
