Sexual Health
Reasons for the Failure of Early Childhood Education: Psychological Shadow Caused by Improper Sexual Education
Post Date November, 16 2024
It is easy to make some small mistakes on the path of sex education for children, which leads to the failure of early sex education. In the current situation, the education of boys is not enough, because according to the survey, girls know more about their bodies and Libido than boys.
Inappropriate childhood coverage shadow
1. Serious conversational style
When children are young, they enjoy playing. If sex education is taught as a course, children will develop a refusal mentality. Parents force children with this knowledge, and in severe cases, people will develop a rebellious mentality and a sense of disgust towards sex. While children are playing, they can take advantage of the opportunity to educate them when encountering things that require help. Of course, the duration of education should be as short as possible and should not disrupt children's normal playing emotions.
2. Avoiding sexual issues and adopting an avoidance attitude
In traditional family education, parents do not allow their children to take any action. When facing sexual questions from children, they often adopt a evasive attitude. Under this oppression and mysterious treatment, children will develop distorted sexual and fear psychology. In future life, it is easy to experience feelings of frigidity, low libido, or aversion to sex. When facing children's sexual problems, parents should smile and tell them the correct answer. If you cannot answer in a timely manner, you should also inform your child to accurately answer and get in touch with their questions after reviewing the information as soon as possible. If the child still cannot understand, parents can use pictures to explain to the child, which is more in line with the child's childhood memory method.
3. Parents should avoid taking their children to opposite sex bathhouses
When we go to public bathhouses, we see the phenomenon of female parents bringing young boys to take a shower, which is an embarrassing scene that many people have probably experienced. In fact, although children are young and ignorant about these things, this sexual stimulation can lead to the occurrence of sexual awareness in children, which in turn accelerates the phenomenon of precocious puberty.
4. Do not neglect gender education
The gender education of children plays an indispensable role in sex education. This has a great impact on children's future sexual orientation issues. We can see some boys talking very girlish on the street, lacking their masculinity, which is caused by the neglect of gender education in childhood.
