Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 Generally speaking, girls believe that:
Once the relationship between her and a boy becomes increasingly intimate, the boy will become confident, full of the nausea of male chauvinism, and show his true colors
The fact is that there is nothing wrong with this, but when the relationship between two people is gradually closer and warmer, boys will also be the same as girls. Your mind is filled with various questions and ideas.
But no matter what he thinks, the scope cannot be separated from the other half: Is she happy with me? Does she like me or not? Will there be any strange smells on me and him that annoy her?
She doesn't look very happy today. Did I do something wrong? "You're always afraid of doing something wrong or making someone feel too stressed," said 18 year old Hiragawa. Some girls will want you to be more proactive, but others will want you to take it easy, and you never know what to do.
2、 Generally, girls believe that boys place more emphasis on lust than on love
The fact is that, contrary to the perception of ordinary girls, boys may not be completely influenced by hormones in their bodies. Our opinion is not to say how pure and fresh and cute boys are, but almost every boy we have asked believes that it is better to have a girlfriend of their own, care for each other, and treat each other sincerely, rather than to hang out with girls who are no three, no four, and behave casually. In fact, many boys would rather not have sex at all than socialize with a girl they don't like.
3、 Girls most often think that boys like beautiful women
The truth is that most boys have an inner outline of the girl they admire. What boys are more willing to admit is that they will date their ideal girl; For example, as far as we know, some boys like tall girls, even though the girl seems to be able to knock down the gentleman with a single punch; However, Zhenping, who is currently studying in construction, is very concerned about girls having large and full lips.
Because I think such a girl is really beautiful. No one is fascinated by the same appearance or thing, and if there are, the components of coincidence should outweigh the actual meaning. For many boys, what a girl looks like is not so decisive. A perfect brain and exceptional intelligence are what I pursue. The person who said this was Guangren, a sophomore.
4、 Boys always put pressure on girls to have sex
The fact is that this is not the case at all. Many boys answer this way, thinking that unless both of you think you should do it, it will not be good for each other; They emphasize that when the relationship between men and women is further advanced, men often misunderstand the behavioral signals of girls, which is important and should be shown.
5、 Boys believe that girls should be responsible for pregnancy
The actual situation - there is no such thing! "In today's society, sexually transmitted diseases are rampant, and you have to take care of yourself. It's impossible for me to rely on others to solve this kind of problem for me," said Xiaoming, 20. Apart from health and responsibility issues, most boys understand that dating without love and financial foundation is not worth the risk of pregnancy.
6、 Boys don't want to talk about their feelings
The fact is that in the process of dating, no one is willing to say "I love you" first, because you don't know whether the outcome of saying this sentence is good or bad! But one thing we can be sure of is that after the great wheel of affection between the two sides has started, almost any boy will be as tender as a girl in his heart; Since we will be together, the symbolic significance is far-reaching, isn't it?
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
