Post Date December, 02 2023
"I am very confused and tangled now. I have a ten-year relationship with a man who has been a prodigal son of the world. I never had the idea of marrying him before, but he has always wanted to marry me. Sometimes I also want to be with him, but when I think about some messy things he did with other women before, I feel very uncomfortable.". He is not very specific about emotions and is very casual with women. Although he is very kind to me now, as he is almost fifty years old, he also wants a family. When we were together, we experienced separation and integration, separation and death, right and wrong, gratitude and resentment. I am really worried now. Should I stay with such a man until he grows old? Please help me, thank you.
"We had two breakups, and each time he broke up, he quickly went to find a woman, no matter what kind of woman he wanted. When I think about this, I feel very uncomfortable. Sometimes when I think about myself, I feel like a particularly foolish woman, thinking that I have a love of my own in the vast sea of people, the result is... I have paid a lot for him, but now I am physically and mentally bruised and tired, and now I really think that I had known it so early, and regret not having..."
reply:
Hello, there are risks involved in marrying a prodigal son. In fact, there are risks involved in a woman marrying any man, but the degree of risk varies. "You spend 10 years with a man, and you are very clear about his personality. You just never thought about it, or dare not think about having a final destination or outcome with him. You just can't help but enjoy the joy and love he brings to you.".
The characteristic of a prodigal son is that he can devote himself to any one, but he will never last. He can refuse to come, but he cannot be consistent. His enthusiasm and endurance are very limited. "The separation, separation, and cooperation between you are a common occurrence for him. You feel physically and mentally injured for this, but he feels that it is not enough stimulation. I am afraid you and he cannot reach an agreement on ideas. Regardless of the present or future, you need to figure out what to do.".
In this world, there are many people who are suitable for marriage, but you choose him as the man who is not suitable for your partner. There is no way, some men can only get their money, some men can only get their thoughts, some men can only get their hurt to you, and some men can only get their reputation, but not their company.
Therefore, seeing the reality clearly, recognizing the situation, making decisions early, and continuing to procrastinate and entangle will only continue to torture and hurt you.
