Post Date December, 02 2023
We have always used the term 'strong' to describe men, and in our consciousness, it seems that men are so strong. Actually, it's not the case. In men's inner world, although their emotions are not as delicate as those of women, they also need the tolerance and understanding of love. Let the male emotional editor introduce what men most need emotionally.
Although men are not as delicate as women, they yearn for others to listen attentively to them, and being able to listen attentively to men's boasting is a form of tolerance. Men boasting in front of women is often just a lack of confidence. If women cannot listen to men, their self-confidence will collapse if it is difficult to establish.
Allowing men to indulge in meaningless little things is a form of tolerance. For example, taking lighters apart and dismantling them, such as playing computer games day and night. Men often use these addictions to achieve psychological buffering. Allowing oneself may be a better form of concern and supervision.
Don't be too harsh or overly responsible towards men. Being able to let men and friends spend time is a form of tolerance. Due to the need for men to occasionally return to their youth, this is a reproduction of their teenage escape from their mother's excessive love and care.
Perhaps you think that seeing a man as dead and giving him no chance to interact with other women is actually a form of tolerance. Men are naturally fond of seeking and appreciating the beauty of the opposite sex, but not all men love each other. In fact, men with good appreciation are more likely to love their wives well.
For men's cynicism, for men's lack of ambition, tolerance seems to be more suitable than duty to move men forward. In a man's life, it is rare to never move forward. Most men always experience periodic emotional fluctuations and behavioral adjustments. The result of whipping a fast cow is often counterproductive, and men do not always need motivation.
What do men most need emotionally? The world of male emotions requires the tolerance of female friends, as well as their love to accommodate and understand them. If you do, give men a certain degree of tolerance, give them a certain amount of space, and they will love you more.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
