Post Date December, 03 2023
In life, there are always couples who complain to the editor that their sexual life is not coordinated and that appreciation has no quality to speak of; Faced with such complaints, the editor initially believed that their skills were not well mastered, but only after careful understanding did he discover that it was a problem with their personality; Experts point out that personality flaws can also affect sexual life subconsciously. For those with a "bad" personality, striving to improve their personality is the best "lubricant" for sexual life.
Selfish people should learn to communicate
The most common situation is that some people are spoiled from childhood and have always been self centered, so they lack the ability to understand others, often demanding each other in their sexual life. Once conflicts arise, they will not calmly communicate, actively compromise, and compromise with each other, only quarreling and complaining about each other. As there are more and more only children nowadays, this situation may become a common problem. For people with this personality, it is difficult to learn tolerance and communication in a short period of time. Therefore, it is necessary to first understand each other in daily life, give them the opportunity to speak, learn to listen, and communicate at any time during sexual life, in order to have a happy sexual life.
People with repressed personalities should speak out boldly
Some people grow up living in a repressed family or social environment, psychologically filled with grayness. If their sexual life is not harmonious, they will feel hurt, and often take offense in sexual matters, blaming each other for all their unhappiness and maladjustment, or using indifference to maintain self-esteem. Therefore, it is best for such people to express some thoughts in their sexual life, relieve their psychological imbalance, and achieve mutual satisfaction. See a psychologist if necessary to treat repressed personalities.
People who lack a sense of security should expand their trust
Due to various setbacks in life, some people also lack sufficient security in their sexual life. Although eager for sexual life, they are often suspicious and lack mutual trust, fearing that a "third party" may come from outside the world. Therefore, it is not easy to engage in sexual life, but rather to become suspicious. Whether sexual life is good or bad, there are reasons for suspicion. This situation often occurs in women. Giving the other party maximum trust is an important guarantee for a good sexual life, and the husband should also provide some support.
When a couple encounters a sexual crisis, it seems a bit late to discover each other's personality flaws! After all, you can't choose to divorce hastily because your sexual life is not coordinated! Therefore, the editor hopes that couples with personality defects can seriously understand the above suggestions, and any problem can be resolved through negotiation. Therefore, whether you can retrieve the original sexual benefits depends on how much you are willing to pay for each other.
