Post Date December, 03 2023
The figure has a golden ratio, so does marriage. Differences in height, age, and even monthly salary may be factors that affect their relationship. Although the golden ratio obtained from the following studies is not applicable to everyone, we might as well make a reference.
The golden ratio of good couples: age difference of 3 years is the best
A height difference of 12 centimeters.
This is the best height difference between men and women, whether it's holding hands, hugging, or kissing, it's the most harmonious difference. Boys are too short, girls will find it dull, too tall and difficult to reach.
Comment: Most girls have a strong desire to be protected and hope that their male partner is higher than themselves, which gives them a sense of security. In fact, men are generally taller than women, but if they are taller by more than 10 centimeters, the visual effect is more obvious, and the petiteness of girls and the strength of boys can be shown. This gap can make the gender roles of both parties more distinct, that is, men are more like men and women are more like women. Of course, being too high is not as practical as being too high. The number of 12 centimeters is only an ideal value representing the height difference between many couples, representing the desire of most women to be cared for.
Age difference at 3 years old.
Girls mature earlier than boys, and they need to coexist peacefully. Their psychological age should be similar. When girls are still in college, boys have already started working; By the time the girl graduates, the man has become quite stable and it is natural to start a family.
Comment: Girls are indeed two to three years older than boys in terms of intellectual and emotional development. The difference between two to three years old basically ensures a match in psychological maturity between men and women. But it may not necessarily be the case. In adolescence, girls' psychological development is earlier than that of boys, but by the age of twenty or thirty, the psychological age of male and female students is basically on par, no matter what. Boys are older than girls, which can help girls find reasons to rely on them and instill a sense of responsibility in boys to care for them.
1.5 times the monthly salary difference.
A survey shows that when a husband's salary is 1.5 times that of his wife, the family can run smoothly.
Comment: Nowadays, both men and women have economic contributions to the family, but influenced by the traditional view of "men leading the outside and women leading the inside", men's economic responsibility seems to be greater. The wife has financial expectations for her husband, but she also does not want to put too much psychological pressure on him. 1.5 times, no more, no less, just right, it not only takes into account men's abilities and face, but also satisfies women's sense of security. Of course, this number is also an ideal value. When men's abilities allow, women prefer a higher proportion.
Maintain a distance of 1 bowl of soup from your parents.
Nowadays, young couples are unwilling to live with their elders, but their parents should also take care of them occasionally. This distance should be when the children cook a bowl of soup and can still drink it while it's hot when delivering it to their parents.
Comment: Nowadays, young people are more self centered, pay more attention to the quality of life, are unwilling to disappoint themselves, and have a sense of responsibility. But in the context of high housing prices in reality, it is difficult to choose accommodation at will. It seems difficult for a young couple and their parents to be relatively independent and able to meet at any time. But having this intelligence and filial piety is very commendable.
Leave half a spoonful of sugar for privacy. Love is not easy to come by, we need to leave some space for each other to breathe. Comment: Although the relationship between husband and wife is intimate, there should also be a relationship. In this way, we can maintain both our independence and appreciation for our loved ones.
