What aspects do we need to start from in the process of family oriented enlightenment education? Let's take a look together

What aspects should be taken into consideration for family oriented enlightenment education

The family is an important place for children's special sexual education, and parents are the enlightening teachers of children's sex education. Children's special sexual education needs to start from the following aspects:

(1) After a child is born, regardless of gender, it is important not to confuse the choices of naming, clothing, and daily necessities, in order to avoid the child's own and others' productive expectations that the child is the gender that parents hope for. Parents love boys and girls, dress up girls as casual boys, and dress up boys as brand girls, which can harm the child's sexiness and subsequent changes in personality and personal behavior.

(2) When children can hear language, parents should revolve sexual enlightenment education around daily life, establishing gender differences in levels such as bathing, clothing, head shape repair, and toy selection. Based on books, brochures, film production, stories, etc., children can be guided to observe the growth and reproduction of animals and plants, enabling them to understand the reproductive system, accept nature, love people, understand the essence of life, and fully unleash their sexuality.

(3) Exploring one's own body at will is a good start for the enlightenment education of physical and mental health. Parents should choose moderate opportunities in their daily lives, such as taking a shower or going to bed, to let their children know about their bodies, especially to let them know that male reproductive organs are no more mysterious than other human organs. They should guide their children to maintain fat transplantation and cultivate excellent lifestyle habits.

(4) When a child explicitly raises questions about performance, it is inevitable for parents to use language and methods that the child can understand and accept to explain, handle, and consider the child's knowledge desire and curiosity. For example, some children like to ask their parents. Where am I from?, How did I get here? Waiting for similar problems, parents don't know how to respond, parents don't know, but they don't know how to talk to their children. In fact, asking this question by children is just a desire for knowledge, and there are no good ideas. If parents respond with deception, scolding, and scolding, it is not good for their child's health achievements. This can bring a child's distrust of their parents' curiosity, harm their curiosity, and enhance their sense of novelty and curiosity. Faced with the difficult problem of children, the mood of scientific research is not to evade or lie. Of course, the parents' reaction is simple and correct, but it must be true. An authoritative expert has clearly proposed very practical coping methods that parents can refer to

Child, haven't you seen raw eggs before? Raw eggs can hatch chicks. My mother's belly is also like an egg, which is also called an egg. An egg with a small belly is called an egg. In the father's body, the things that raise babies are also known as male sperm.

The father's male sperm and the mother's egg cells fuse to form a combination of sperm and egg. The combination of sperm and egg is not large, thinner than the hair, but as it grows, it becomes one, two, four, four, eight, eight, and sixteen. After ten months in the mother's womb, it becomes a child. At that time, the mother's abdomen was closed and the child was born in the hole that the mother had crossed.

Good child, you just leave like this. There are also many complex processes here, and when you grow up and go to college, you will know a lot. Now you are very young, as long as you tell you the general situation, grow up immediately, study hard, and you can know many things.

(5) The personal behavioral standards of parents themselves are also important. The sincere and harmonious relationship between parents, as well as the noble social morality, can set an excellent example for children, which will make them fall in love with the path of life, enjoy life, and become a correct issue to view.

Warm little instructions:

The special cultural education for children is not only a fact, but also cannot be too complex. It should not only stimulate children's curiosity, but also naturally delay the actual points to be grasped in their future lives.

Honestly share past sexual experiences with immediate family members

Nowadays, male and female marriages are usually successful rather than first love. Most of them have been in love several times, so there is no need for immediate family members to honestly share their past love and sexual experiences with others?

Couples should respect each other and treat each other with loyalty, so they should usually not conceal their past sexual experiences, but should be honest before marriage and not after marriage. In that case, on the one hand, it mainly demonstrates one's trust and loyalty to the other party, and on the other hand, whether one is gentle and considerate, and whether one trusts and forgives oneself is a test.

Surprisingly, for the actual points of past events, this actual point will not harm the essence of things and will not have a positive effect on the development trend of each other's emotions. The young couple got married on a blind date and had a very good relationship with each other. The woman had a boyfriend before, and the two had fallen in love before, but then broke up for some reason. As for this matter, my current husband also knows that one night, the couple was sitting on the fabric sofa watching a TV drama when he suddenly asked, 'Which bonsai friend did you go to?'? At this point, the wife is unable to cope. If that person had kissed, hugged, and touched her in the past, what benefits would it have for the current stage of marital relationships that are advancing the trend? Therefore, the wife immediately answered this question, only kissing the husband and saying, 'I hardly love you.'.

The wife's approach is correct and correct. It may not seem safe for the husband to ask this question. To be honest, love is not without a reason, but it must be subject to a destination that is conducive to the advancement and development of the couple's relationship.

Warm little instructions:

It can be seen that there is no doubt about informing immediate family members of one's sexual experience, but mastering a sense of moderation does not necessarily harm the marital relationship due to past events. In these aspects, both husband and wife should maintain a certain mood. As a result, these are all past events.