Post Date December, 03 2023
What are you most afraid of in your married life? One of the most common problems in couples' life is what they fear most? Let's take a look with Xiaobian.
Reasonably, the two groups in marriage should be equal, and no one can look down on the other, neither can bully nor cheat the other. Usually this kind of marriage is our ideal. In the marriage life, both groups have some views on each other more or less, which may affect the current life of both groups.
We continue to talk about equivalence, task equivalence, life equivalence, and marriage equivalence. The ideal life is that many people don't want to be equal to you, and some people think they are superior to others. In fact, no one is a fool. Why are you superior to others. Many people have this idea to make their life irregular.
In marriage, some people are afraid of getting each other, so they try their best to whitewash their uneasiness and past as well as their secret secrets. It's very tiring. Both are tired. Don't think the other party can't see it, just don't want to say it. A layer of paper has been pierced, and the days can not be passed. We can only open and close our eyes, which is why many people choose to settle for marriage today. It's not good to know too much. The key is how to master this degree. The degree of marriage is very important. It can be hidden, but not too much. It can not affect the emotional life of the two groups.
I like the kind of respect that treats each other like a guest, but does not lose the prosperity of marriage. It is necessary for the two groups to respect each other. This is not only respect for marriage, but also recognition of each other; But to live happily and happily, we must understand the meaning of respect, and then we can have a wonderful marriage life.
The person who is most afraid of in marriage is a yes-man. Obviously, it is the fault of the other party. In the past, I feel like I have made a big mistake. I beg the other party not to leave me everywhere. Such a person is doomed to be a comedy. The more so, the more despised you are, the more unscrupulous you are. Of course, you will still be injured at first.
Others feel that marriage is not easy, and they want to live well in their hearts, and live like thin ice every day. In fact, this is the most risky. Couples should respect each other as if they have a degree. After that, there will be some holidays. It will make people feel that you don't want to live well with others, but it will make people feel worried. The couple live like a host every day and always use honorific words. Don't you feel uncomfortable and bored in this kind of life? You will get heart disease after a long time. In fact, the life between husband and wife still needs to return to the past. After all, we are all great people and live great lives. No one can still make life interesting without cannibalism!
Many people are like this. It is clearly the fault of the other party and the other party is out of the way. Even if you catch the other party in bed, the other party does not kowtow to admit the mistake, but you are embarrassed. You think it is disturbing others' work. I also obediently join in and open the door to others. Before leaving, I still don't forget to say hello: You are coming gradually. Isn't this cheap? It is cheap. There are many such cheap people in marriage. Don't laugh, maybe you are. It's just that you don't know.
In fact, such people are not in the majority. I speak clearly every time, but they still don't know. It really makes me speechless. Such people are really saved. Instead of blaming you for saving them, they thought it was a kind of enjoyment. No wonder others look down on you. You have never looked up to yourself as a person. How can people look up to you.
In marriage, both groups are independent groups. It is not an empty word to love each other equally. When you feel equal, do you think the other party thinks the same? If not, you should try to make it equal. If you can't do it, then what should you do? Don't let people trample on it.
