Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is not unbreakable. In fact, even if two people always hold the heart of stable management of a relationship. But sometimes marriage will also encounter certain difficulties and even crises, which will eventually lead to an incurable situation. Therefore, three magic weapons are needed to save marriage.
Case 1: Since his marriage, Xiao Dong has been busy at home every day, cleaning from morning to night. Every day I am busy coaxing children, feeding them, dressing them, sending them to school, and going to work by myself. When Xiao Dong's husband came home, he just lay on the sofa and didn't do anything. Xiao Dong asked him to sweep the floor and was still full of complaints. This made Xiao Dong very aggrieved, "I work hard for my family every day. Why can't you help me?"
Case study: Sometimes, marriage problems are not because you don't do anything, but because you do everything, or even do too much. For this point, perhaps we need to learn to listen. The more important thing than communication is to listen to each other's voice, listen to each other's views on this marriage, and listen to each other's views on some things. Only in this way can you know the other party's thoughts and let the other party understand you. In the case of Xiao Dong, we can find that she spends too much time doing things every day, neglecting her husband's feelings, neglecting that he is also a normal man, and also needs to open up and listen.
Case 2: Xiao Chen is a typical shopaholic. Before getting married, he must buy new clothes every month. After marriage, shopping has been a little more restrained, but it is still bought every month. Xiao Chen's husband, Xiao Wang, repeatedly advised her to buy less, but Xiao Chen could not listen to her.
Case study: Xiao Chen's attitude can represent the voice of the majority of women. After marriage, women really can't "buy if you want". Some women feel resentful and feel that their quality of life has declined. But marriage is meant to support a family by two people, and even support the elderly and the young. For such a marriage, the best thing is to understand more and demand less to make the marriage unbreakable.
Case 3: Xiaoji is a strong woman who works overtime crazily every day and earns more than 300000 yuan a year at a young age. However, in exchange for this, Xiaoji's husband had to resign and take care of the children at home. He was busy from morning to night every day. However, Xiaoji would occasionally "complain" in front of others, saying that his husband did nothing at home and was busy making money to support his family every day. Finally, when Xiaoji was talking, Xiaotian, who had been silent all the time, got angry and took out his household register and said he wanted to divorce.
Case study: With the rapid development of the economy, women can hold up half the sky, and strong women like Xiaoji are also common. It's good to have a high income, but it's not good to look down on your husband. Marriage is based on mutual respect, not the compassion of the strong to the weak. Respect your husband, enlarge your mind and tolerate him. Don't let him feel oppressed, inferiority, and lose confidence in you and your family.
