Sexual Health
What are the signs of a man's infidelity? These behaviors may indicate a change of heart
What are the signs of a man cheating? In society, the affair of infidelity is no longer a new occurrence, but not everyone can quickly detect the affair of their partner, so many people are in a state of confusion. So what are the signs of a man's infidelity? Below, let me introduce it to you.
Analyzing the signs of a man's infidelity
1、 He suddenly stopped being jealous
1. Case Review
Xiangling found herself suddenly free, and she felt a bit uneasy in the face of this freedom. Previously, my husband had a tight eye on her and couldn't help it. Who made Xiangling the school flower. My husband initially became the head of the famous flower after kicking off countless wild bees and butterflies. Even after getting married, he would always be cautious and guard against those who didn't give up. Even when Xiangling participated in the company's social activities, he would come to pick him up and go home.
Actually, Xiangling knew that he was there to check if there were any suspicious individuals by the way. But this time when I was gathering with my classmates, my husband not only allowed me to have a good time, but also didn't ask any questions afterwards, which made Xiangling's heart empty and prepared.
A few days later, she tried to take a leave and said that some friends wanted to go karaoke tonight. She also specifically pointed out that someone who chased her back then would also go with her. My husband just said hello lightly, and there was no phone call during that time. By the time she returned home, he had already started snoring.
2. Case analysis
If he hasn't made any obvious moves beyond that, then perhaps this is just the initial stage of infidelity and there is still room for redemption;
2. Men's change of heart often starts from women's neglect of themselves. Even if the flames are never fueled, they will always burn out. Therefore, it is best to examine whether one has indeed neglected the other person on a daily basis;
2、 He lost his previous enthusiasm for your body
1. Case Review
When Han Qing was awakened by the phone, it was 3am. Yan Er's voice was bleak and faint, telling her about Zuo Xu's coldness: "We haven't had sex for a long time. He always pushes me away, and no matter how I use it, I can't arouse his enthusiasm. I think - he must have someone outside." Why? They are three college classmates, and Han Qing knows Zuo Xu well. He is not a fickle person. Han Qing decided to talk to Zuo Xu.
Under Han Qing's repeated questioning, Zuo Xu finally admitted that this was the truth. Because Yan Er's body was too familiar to him, so familiar that he could touch every spot with his eyes closed, he really lost his passion. On the contrary, due to business reasons recently, I often accompany clients to nightclubs, where the drinking girl wears revealing clothes and has an attractive figure, which often makes him burn with desire. Zuo Xu admits that these new sexy symbols have a great impact on him, and if it weren't for his love for Yan'er, he might have been unable to hold onto them for a long time.
After listening to Han Qing's story, Yan Er broke out in a cold sweat, but when she calmed down and thought about it, she was actually not! Every night holding Zuo Xu's sturdy back, when did you experience the initial excitement and impulse? On the contrary, once in the elevator of the workplace, she was tightly pressed against the muscular male supervisor, which made her blush and heartbeat. But she is very clear that this does not mean anything. She loves Zuo Xu, at least so far it has not changed.
2. Case analysis
1. It is not surprising that this phenomenon occurs between couples who have been married for many years. Sexual attraction between men and women is not always fresh and exciting. When passion becomes dull and sexual behavior becomes habitual, some new sexy symbols may have an impact on one party;
2. Fortunately, both parties still love each other, and this impact has not yet caused substantial harm to either party. It belongs to the category that can be repaired and improved, but it is already a dangerous signal that needs to be highly valued by both parties involved;
The reason for a man's infidelity
1、 Sexual disharmony.
Mr. Mencius once said, 'Food and sex are also important.'. The so-called appetite also means that sexual activity is equally important as eating.
There is an old Chinese saying: "Man is iron, rice is steel, and once stewed, there is no hunger. If the sexual life of both spouses is not harmonious for a long time, then the marital life is not satisfactory and happy enough. Sometimes men are self righteous and like to shift the blame onto women. Blame my wife for not being able to bring forth new ideas from the past, and also blame her for not doing her job well as a woman. The fault lies with the woman. This is certainly male chauvinism. Both men and women are responsible for disharmonious sexual activity. Men cannot just solve problems and enjoy themselves without exploring their interests and pleasures.
2、 Work pressure is too high.
Modern society has bred many "modern diseases", with high work pressure and tense life rhythm. It's easy for men to bring their work emotions home, and as a result, when they go to bed, they are still thinking about work, which naturally makes them unable to lift their spirits, let alone sleep well. Most modern women are no longer housewives, as they have their own careers and their self-esteem and confidence are also pushed to the extreme by work. They often work hard and are exhausted when they return home. At this time, both men and women are most likely to have conflicts and emotions that are more irritable than usual. Sexual activity sometimes becomes a great antidote to stress, but many women fail to make good use of it.