Post Date December, 03 2023
Everyone is an independent individual with their own ideas and practices, so don't impose your own ideas on others. Do not do what you don't want to do to others, then you know why women always want to change men, and that's for whatever reason. Some women habitually transform men according to their own requirements. In fact, men also have their own thoughts, and the thing they are most afraid of when they hate trouble is to bear too much. For this reason, many men want to know why women always want to change men, and what are the common love psychology of women.
Why do women always want to change men?
The woman's own answer seems simple: the man she faces is not good enough. The specific reasons are as follows:
1. Women hope to play a leading role in romantic relationships
When women ask men to make changes, it is also a logic: you need my care, you need my guidance, you need my command, I am the protagonist in many things, I am important in your life, don't treat me as unnecessary.
2. The advantages obtained can be ignored
Women yearn for something because of its benefits, such as because the man is mature and takes care of the woman. But after obtaining it, he took the advantages of a man for granted, only seeing his shortcomings, so he made new demands.
3. Women have a portrait of their 'dream lover' in their hearts
The standard for women is: I can do whatever I want, he has everything I want, so women often change men according to their own wishes. Among all animals, the woman is the least willing to compromise with her dream. Women are unwilling to compromise with their dreams, but they lack the courage to completely revolutionize. Men are more inclined towards revolution, that is, changing girlfriends when they are dissatisfied, while women tend to improve and try to change the men around them.
4. Women need to prove their ownership with sustained attention
Women often say, 'Why do I just want to change you?'? Because I treat you well and care about you, I won't worry about others' affairs. The nature of men is to hunt, and once they knock down their prey, they believe it belongs to them, while the nature of women is to cultivate, that is, to continuously pour labor in order to prove possession. A woman needs to prove that this man belongs to her, so she will pay attention to all the details of this man and trim them to feel at ease.
What are the common love psychology of women?
I often hear people say 'a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea', is it so difficult to guess the psychology of women? When in love, although some women occasionally tend to be petty and turn their faces faster than they turn their books, their purpose is actually very simple, just to act coquettishly. It's not difficult to understand women's thoughts, let's take a look at these 8 female love psychology together.
1. Decisive self-improvement
Women all hope to find a safe haven through marriage. They like men who are resolute, decisive, enthusiastic, outgoing, and responsible, while they despise men who are hesitant, indecisive, and hesitant.
2. Sideswipe and sideswipe
Speaking is also an art. Women have a psychological defense instinct, often using language to conceal their true intentions, and do not like others to reveal their secrets. If a man pretends to be smart and speaks directly about a woman's feelings, it often causes resentment.
3. Comfortable and unrestrained
Women do not like these two types of men, one is those who are dull and silent in front of women, and the other is those who exaggerate and speak eloquently in front of women. And the natural qualities of being cool, calm, sincere, and natural can eliminate women's defensive mentality and win their favor.
4. Single blade direct entry
Most women prefer straightforward expressions. Although they may feel a bit embarrassed about being straightforward on their first date, they find such men charming and find it difficult to refuse straightforward expressions. On the contrary, they dislike men who make evasive, hesitant, hesitant, and overly reserved statements.
5. Be considerate and considerate
For introverted women, if they want to pursue it, they can show care and consideration, allowing them to patiently confide in them when they are in a bad mood, and creating opportunities for them to vent their emotions. Because introverted girls usually do not like to express their emotions, they are easily oppressed by small things, which can lead to violent emotional explosions. If you can balance and coordinate her inner self, you will gradually become her confidant and lover.
6. Skillfully breaking conventions
Generally speaking, girls' lives are mundane, and they have a strong desire for change, hoping for unexpected things to add to their lives. Therefore, they do not like stereotypical and conventional men. Of course, before catering to women's desire for stimulation and change, it is necessary to first make them rationally confirm that you are a stable person, and then break free from conventions, create new ideas, and make them full of fun. Otherwise, it will backfire and create an impression of frivolous behavior and procrastination among women.
7. Static braking
Sometimes, a woman may appear indifferent to you on the surface, but in reality, her heart is filled with contradictions. Repeated rejections can make the pursuer stay away and may give her a taste of being alone in an empty boudoir. And if you pursue too closely, women's "defense instinct" will reject you, which is also a psychological phenomenon caused by women's arrogance, unwillingness to give up, and curiosity. As long as you can grasp the psychology of women and master the rhythm of pursuit, you will definitely be able to hunt for love and obtain happy love.
8. Express one's feelings directly
For rational women, it is better to express their love directly than to argue. A rational woman must first attract her with a strong love magic, attack in a straightforward way, or express her feelings directly. Overcoming reason with emotions is the best way to pursue rational women. Because, generally speaking, rational women give people a sense of fear due to their intelligent temperament, and many men often stay away from them. Rational women have fewer opportunities to receive love, and they are more likely to feel the existence of love when they are loved.
Conclusion: Women must pay more attention, don't be too anxious, don't rush to change men, sometimes men's actions are also advisable. Having a happy life is something we all aspire to, so it is important to maintain the relationship between husband and wife well. Don't rush to change him, only by grasping the man's psychology can you implement your plan.
