Post Date December, 03 2023
A friend asked me, "What is the secret of your sweetness and sweetness with your wife?" I told him truthfully, without concealing it, "I like my wife!"
I clearly know that the biggest weakness of marriage is that it is easy to get tired of each other. If married people want to eliminate the boredom between husband and wife, they must let love continue in marriage, and give love, the beautiful flower of the world, sufficient sunshine and water --- always inject new content and expression. In order to keep the flower of love between me and my wife in bloom, I consciously do the "preservation" of love as a "lover"; Go into the role and "love your wife".
In terms of age, my wife is eight years younger than me; In terms of life experience, I am more bumpy and rich than my wife. It can be said that we are a "complementary" couple. In such a marriage pattern, in order to constantly strike the spark of love, I took the search for common interests and interests of both parties as the starting point. My wife studies Chinese and works as a Chinese teacher in a middle school. Her occupation and interest have made her have a special interest in literary books. Her hobby coincides with mine.
Thus, the works of a certain writer and a certain writer have become one of the topics of our spare time communication. Every time we go shopping, we will not forget the bookstore. The psychological feelings of going to the bookstore with his wife are different from those of going to the gold and silver jewelry store with his wife. My wife's spiritual possessiveness is very strong. If she likes literary books, no matter how expensive they are, she will ask me, the "boss", to take them on the spot. In the face of my wife's requirement of "progress", I will not hesitate to meet her desire.
When my wife's interests conflict with my own, I adopt the approach of "preserving my true colors and making room for others". My wife likes dancing, but I have a prejudice against dancing, especially those who go to dance halls. I know that my wife dances for two purposes: fitness and entertainment. In this case, I gave my wife a certain amount of freedom with confidence and never forced her to keep pace with me.
Because of the implementation of my strategy of "investing in my wife's love", my wife followed my action and implemented the return policy of "investing in my husband's love". In this way, "marriage is the continuation of love" is naturally formed in my family.
