In society, many single men blindly believe in the 'forty-one flowers of men', and the older they get, the more valuable they become. They all feel that their opportunities are infinite, thinking that women from all over the world can be easily captured. It is precisely because of this confidence that they are encouraged to live a carefree single life while secretly waiting for women to appear in the kitchen and out of the hall, even if they cannot wait for them for a lifetime.
And when you smugly think that you have found the legendary high-quality single man, you are likely to find that he is just a person who smells far and near.
1. Likes to touch women
As the woman in Chekov's "Cherry Orchard" said, "If I ask you to kiss my hand, then you will definitely kiss my shoulder and my forehead. Because men's psychological characteristics determine that they like to touch women, they are born with a strong desire to touch women. Especially for men in love, they particularly hope to touch women because they feel that it is a way to make both parties closer, and they also want to confirm the degree of love between you. In fact, in terms of physiology and psychology, they just want to achieve their "ultimate goal". In the eyes of us women, their love for touching women precisely indicates their "anxious" mentality, which makes people feel disgusted.
2. Likes to see women naked
Men are animals that think in the lower body. When they see naked women, their wolf nature becomes more intense. The more a woman covers her private parts, the stronger their psychological stimulation. Their "rich" imagination stimulates their deep sexual impulses. Such men are extremely dangerous, and we have to constantly guard against and pay attention to our appearance in our interactions with them. We also have to doubt the purpose of their interactions with us.
3. I like to listen to women's past
Men's desire to monopolize determines their desire to "listen to a woman's past", especially when they want to enter the palace of marriage with this woman. They hope to have a woman's future and past, and hope that her past and present lives can be said to possess for him. Men's monopolistic mentality can easily lead to a desire for control, and they may also mind your present because of your past.
So, men who have been single for too long are actually a bit dangerous. If you want to develop with them, it's best to first understand their situation.
(Intern Editor: Huang Qianyi)