Post Date December, 03 2023
People often say, 'Don't guess a woman's thoughts, you'll never know what she's thinking at the moment.'. In fact, the same goes for men's minds.
Many friends have talked about their confusion: "I really don't understand why he's like that?" "Is what he's saying true or is it a joke?"... I think the reason why they feel confused is because they are very confused and blind about their boyfriend and even the entire male psyche.
Like women, men are accustomed to hiding their thoughts and desires, and their social role positioning makes them even stronger in this area than women. They are simply experts in disguise. It's not too much to describe them as' right or wrong 'or' wrong or wrong '.
Do you understand his thoughts and desires? What exactly does he think about you and the world around him?
After understanding his desire, you will say, "Yes, that's how things are!" At that time, you will surely win and be calm.
When he eagerly inquired about your past - he hoped to have everything you had alone
I remember Zhao Chuan once sang, 'I won't care about those past, I'll be here waiting for you no matter when...'
Do you believe it? In fact, I think this is more like a "women's manifesto" - why worry about a man's past when he falls in love? The flame of love burning right now is the most important thing. However, a man's heart is not so simple. Once a man falls in love with a woman, even if it is the other person's past history, he must inquire clearly.
The strong possessiveness of men determines this. He fell in love with that woman and wanted to completely possess her alone, even questioning her past in detail, otherwise he would not be satisfied.
A man's pursuit of the other person's past romantic history often arouses resentment, but for those conservative men, they never give up until they achieve their goals.
If your boyfriend suddenly becomes interested in your past and relentlessly asks about it, generally speaking, it is due to three motives: the first is the desire to enjoy all your secrets and privacy alone, which can be called a "proposal manifesto"; The second possibility is that he has confirmed his love for you and hopes to deepen their relationship with each other, which can be seen as a 'declaration of love'; The third motivation may be that he has developed suspicion towards you, and there is already a gap between them. If your past is not enough to dispel his doubts, it will become a "farewell declaration" for breaking up with you.
As for which motivation your boyfriend belongs to, it depends on the specific situation.
If your relationship has always been steadfast and close, and he suddenly expresses curiosity about your past, congratulations, your situation is the first one.
