Post Date December, 03 2023
The post-70s men are in the role transformation period, which is the golden stage of both career and family harvest. However, many post-70s men still choose to be single. They may have too much impatience and bitterness, or it may be an escape from responsibility. Regardless of the result, they are enjoying their own life. Similarly, they also have to face the challenge of family and friends' advice. To analyze, there are undoubtedly the following ten reasons for being single.
1. Too much life pressure
In modern society, the main pressure is not only from work, but also from life. Facing the challenges of marriage, it is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as house and car, and these life pressures can make men choose to give up marriage.
2. Not enough funds
In addition to houses and cars, it is more important to have enough money to live. From the moment when we are about to say goodbye to being single, we should spend money to cultivate feelings. The preparation work between marriage is basically accompanied by money, and the life after marriage is naturally impossible without enough money.
3. Pick and choose
Maybe many post-70s men have talked about many girlfriends, including those who live together. When they face the sensitive word of marriage, they always can't bear to bury themselves quickly, so they start to pick one after another. In the end, what they like is not suitable for others, and what others like is not suitable for them.
4. For the so-called study and career
I think I have no end in learning and have been in a state of learning. As a result, I have studied for an undergraduate course in a junior college, and then studied for a postgraduate course. I still want to study for a doctoral degree after finishing the postgraduate course. I am more than 30 years old. I just work and I am not willing to mention marriage. In order to have more choices in the future, I have been in a state of waiting.
5. Celibate
Obviously, they don't want to get married, like celibacy, like freedom, don't like to be bound by others, and don't need to be bound by life. Especially married men, of course, are not as free as unmarried men, so most of the post-70s male celibates are selfish.
6. Wait-and-see player
Cohabitation can be done, but it is absolutely not allowed to study the major issues of marriage, even those who have cohabited for a long time. Some people who have cohabited for many years are unwilling to mention marriage. If their girlfriend puts forward it, they will find a reasonable and grand reason for her to wait. This is a typical wait-and-see player of post-70s men. We are in the bowl, but also looking at the pot.
7. Feelings have been seriously hit
Most post-70s men are more rational about marriage and also more obedient to their parents' opinions. After all, men in that era still have a sense of obedience to the overall situation in their bones. As a result, they often hurt themselves because of obedience to the overall situation. After a serious emotional blow, they have no confidence in love.
8. Afraid of taking responsibility
This kind of post-70s man has his own small calculation. He has a clear target of attack, but he has not succeeded yet. So, let's delay first. If he succeeds, he will change the target of attack. If he fails, he will find a woman in front of him. He is seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.
9. Women without true love
It's easy to like a woman, but this kind of love can never reach the point of love, just like it, so we can only choose to talk, chat, cohabit for a period of time and then talk about whether we can get married, and the final result is to choose single. This kind of post-70s man is fragile in nature, and generally doesn't believe in true love.
10. Don't like women
After a man is 70 men, the youngest is about 30 years old, and the oldest is about 40 years old. Are men, 30 years old, 40 years old and not confused? If they really don't love or marry, then maybe they are gay and don't like women at all.
