Post Date December, 03 2023
The American Women's Health magazine published an expert article about the eight most important "firsts" in men's lives, and introduced how these experiences affect men's attitudes towards love and marriage.
First kiss
Steven is an employee of an American company. He said that the "first kiss" in men's memory does not refer to the first kiss, but the best kiss, which determines the future emotional development. Steven was deeply infatuated with an Irish girl. Only after the first kiss did he find that she did not call him. The sentimental kiss with his second girlfriend Susanna activated all his sensory cells. Later, Susanna became his wife, and the feeling of excitement lasted for 40 years.
First trip
Some people say that if a man and a woman can't travel happily together, they can't be married; If a couple is unhappy when traveling, their relationship will not last long. It can be seen how important the feeling of travel is to love and marriage. Steven also believes that no matter long distance or short distance travel, or even simple dining out, the shortcomings of both sides' personalities can be exposed. A lawyer said that travel was the best way to get to know each other, and his wife was the woman he knew and got along with most happily during a trip.
Say "I love you" for the first time
This sentence should come from the heart. It is a milestone in the emotional life, indicating that "this relationship is really that.". But saying "I love you" prematurely will appear hasty; If you talk too much, you will also make the other party bored. So both men and women should cherish the opportunity to show their love.
I found her humorous for the first time
Humor can become the lubricant of life, regulate relationships and resolve conflicts. Almost every man wants to meet a humorous woman and develop a close relationship with her.
See her friend for the first time
"Birds of a feather flock together" is also the way for Americans to make friends. Most men want to know their girlfriend's friends. If one of them likes to lie or misbehave, most of them will break up with his girlfriend decisively.
Give her the wardrobe for the first time
Before marriage, Americans often cohabit for a period of time to determine whether their personalities are compatible. Steven believes that when a man asks his girlfriend to put clothes in his wardrobe, that is an important hint: I am serious about this relationship. For men, a neat wardrobe represents a wish.
Say "I do" boldly for the first time
Many American men are particularly nervous when they get married, and they are even afraid of making mistakes when saying "I would like to". They think it will make people regret for a lifetime. When Steven got married, he was very afraid that he would be dry and speechless, so that the bride mistook him for not being willing. So a few days before marriage, he kept practicing this sentence in front of the mirror. As a result, as soon as he opened his mouth that day, "I would like to" said three words simply and loudly.
Being a father for the first time
There is no more exciting moment in a man's life than being a father for the first time, and even many men will cry for joy. In the interview, all the men said that life is perfect only after being a father. "The moment you see your child, you understand the value of life."
